You should have to force him. He should hear you saying it’s an issue and then he should take care of it. That’s why I say he doesn’t support you. You already told him how you feel and he did nothing about it.

Gotta pay the troll toll

Just celebrate before she leaves.

That twin connection is powerful and won't be broken by any arguments.

They want to focus on turning 21 together as sisters.

Have him read you are not broken by Kelly casperson

Have him read you are not broken by Kelly casperson

I think you somehow need to get a passion for getting fit. Hire a personal trainer and be accountable for it. Hire a chef to make you good healthy food, or get a passion for cooking. Focusing on your health may well make you feel mentally much better. Also it's quite clear any issues with your relationship stem back to the one you had with your mother. Maybe you are attracted to someone somewhat unstable. Man you are not old, good luck buddy.

I mean being ignored by people you don't like, who don't like you, seems kind of ideal to me.

If you're not getting the energy you want or need from these events, just stop showing up to them.

If you want to spend time with Danny, invite her to events of your own, that you have planned and arranged for the friends you actually get good energy from.

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It doesn’t sound to me like Danny is being a very good friend. A good friend wouldn’t be friends with someone who ices someone else out or who says negative things constantly about other people.

If I needed to continue in this friend group, I would definitely never invite them to anything at my own house and stop attending anything Danny hosts.

The only thing you've done that was stupid was ask a young woman to go without any real contact for a couple years at a time (other than few, short visits). LDRs are hard.

If you do decide to end this, then you shut down all contact. Block her on phone and social media and email. And don't relent.

I don't think you should be angry at her, you were asking a nearly impossible thing of her. Date locally. Be realistic.

She'll survive, and so will you.

Well, I thought I could give advice, but you being in Iran makes it very complicated. Is your BF extremely conservative?

Danny is a woman. I specify that fairly often. I'm not saying she needs to force people to like me. I'm saying it's unfair to force me into situations that are so shitty for me, and not allow me to reciprocate, while letting them do whatever they want. I am aware that she can't control their behavior, so I'm asking for advice on how to make this situation less shitty for me.

At least I don’t need to text my man 50-100 times a day and need him to call me to validate my existence in his life. GIRL!!!! Maybe he just doesn’t want to see you or speak with you, could be. Have a great evening texting and calling!! Out!!!

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he probably wasn’t really attracted to you, and found you more less attractive as time went by

>I said vaginas are seen as submissive and penises are seen as dominant

Lol, what?

Wow. That is really hard. I can't even imagine this. Thank you for sharing.

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What about if you masturbate and he uses his hand on himself while watching you? That could start opening some doors/ideas. Is he embarrassed to do it in front of you? Has he ever?

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It also seems to old are you are when your virginity is lost the harder it can get I’m speaking of the hymen now