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Reply to I (F26) received an anonymous letter in the post saying my partner (M29) has been cheating on me. What would you do? by [deleted]

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Reply to Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele

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itsameluigee t1_jaetcls wrote

Reply to comment by ahappydementor in My(22F) best friend(22f) won't stand up for me, what do I do? by ahappydementor

You literally created this scenario by telling a bunch of people you don't like these 2.

Now you're surprised when they don't greet you warmly.

And now you want this friend to choose sides when she hasn't directly done anything to you besides be friends to be people you don't like.

Now tell me who's being unreasonable in this instance.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaetbrd wrote

Reply to comment by barbie_farts_88 in anyone deal with a partner with PTSD? F34 M35 9 years together by barbie_farts_88

If he won’t get help on his own, then I don’t know what to tell you. You can’t make him go. You can only tell him that you need to see improvement else you need to reevaluate the relationship.

You guys could probably benefit from couples counseling too.

I dunno. I don’t understand people who know something is wrong but make no effort to improve things.

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Reply to I (24m) have a crazy clingy ex FWB(23f). What's the proper way to get rid of someone like that? I've tried but I always end up feeling guilt by Vofz

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facinationstreet t1_jaet98t wrote

Reply to My (26F) boyfriend (28M) wants us to stay in a hoarder home? by anxiousanonxyz

He brought it up now though, saying that “If we are going to continue dating it’s something I have to get used to.”

Hell no! You do not have to 'get used to it'. You stay in a hotel. She can visit you there or at someone else's house. If your bf can't agree to that then this is a deal breaker. And you need to be serious about it being a deal breaker.

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barbie_farts_88 OP t1_jaesz8h wrote

Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in anyone deal with a partner with PTSD? F34 M35 9 years together by barbie_farts_88

Any advice to get him to see someone and take it seriously? I've been thinking about setting something up for him and just telling him im good to do that and tell him when the appointment is and I think maybe he would be more likely to go that way but I'm not sure. He doesn't like Drs and he doesn't like therapists.

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