She's not answered that question at all, just getting mad at people for answering her question.

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Don’t say anything to him and watch his behavior. It could be a looney ex or someone who feels guilty about being with a taken man. I wouldn’t say anything to him about it because if he’s a cheater then he’s also a liar.

No, just no. Why would you consider putting your child into that environment with those parents? You tell her one time, then you refuse to discuss it further. Don't respond at all. She's harrassing you because it works and she thrives on the drama, which you are allowing yourself to be drawn into. Boundaries.

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It has to be from a friend of yours and doesn’t want to get in to the middle of it when the shit its the fan. Either you keep quiet and observe to see if its true or just confront him and say you know he is cheating and see how he reacts. His body language will tell you everything. If he denies ask to check his phone. If he refuses you have your answer.

Just to play devils advocate:

Is it possible she is actually busy and you are reading too much into her "active" status? Whenever I am busy, I might still have the FB tab open in my browser and I might still look "active" even if I'm not.

Interesting. So the only reason I would want to reach out to someone I used to like is for them to “fix” me or my life.

I personally wouldn’t trust someone who is emotionally cheating on their current partner to be a good future partner to me.

You shouldn’t do anything. It’s really up to her. The only way for things to proceed with the two of you is for her to break her current relationship or cheat. You could encourage her to break up or cheat. But morally I would say it’s not a good decision.

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I mean if you want to hangout and stuff you could try.

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you are sleeping with her knowing she's incredibly mentally unwell and is obviously loony tunes infatuated with you. You are absolutely taking advantage of someone who should probably be in in-patient services. You say yourself that you dont want to mess with her anymore so grow up, take accountability for your own choices and do the right thing.

I did, and none of it suggests that you have gotten serious psychological treatment. Every single one of your problems from past relationships are your problems to solve with the help of a psychologist who can help you move on from your past, find better ways of dealing with the pain they caused, and to stop yourself from making these issue his problem. No matter how you word it or approach this in the post you’re not getting away from the basis of the issue in him pulling away from you which is you making all these things from your past his problem to handle based on your behavior and how you deal with your issues because it’s seemingly unavoidable in the way you described it because you’re letting that past trauma rule your life.

Based on your reply it doesn’t sound like you want to put in the work to be healthy and are just looking for a quick fix, it’s not something that happens over night and it does take time. The only person that can work on that is you, so either you take the time to do it right or he’s going to eventually leave you for someone that is willing to work on making themselves a better person and partner.

Well, I got in a relationship 7 years ago and moved away for that person. That relationship ended a year ago. I don’t like it here and moving back there for work anyway. I’ve been away for a few years and am reconnecting with other people I was friends with. So I have people to hang out with and do stuff.

>After confessing my feelings for her, she hooked up a colleage the very next day

Come on...

I know you weren't dating but "Oh you let me know you had feelings for me? That's cool, lemme just go fuck this guy a minute then I'll get back to you" speaks fucking volumes to how little respect and thought she gave your "confession of feelings"

Never mind the rest of this dumpsterfire. History of cheating aswell? Come on man... just walk before you end up sinking more time into this.

Because if were happy and fulfilled with your current life I doubt that you would be so nostalgic and be looking up people from a decade ago. I could be wrong.

Your education is something you own for the rest of your life. Get that before worrying about prioritizing any man or relationship. If you relocate there and split your attention between him and school, or if you go there and it does not work out and then you are distracted from school, you undermine your own path.

Stay in SK until your master's.

He is incorrect, you absolutely do not have to get used to it! I’m assuming you’re not exaggerating and this is indeed a serious hoard. He needs to get help if he thinks you just need to adapt to the filth. Don’t go! If you do, check expiration dates on anything you eat and sniff meat products.

Great resources r/frugal r/almosthomeless r/povertyfinance I also believe you should set yourself free. All the best

Exactttttlllyy. That’s so fucking weird to even imagine.

Oh as long as you haven't like gotten back with her then you're cool. I'm not sure maybe discuss it with the police?

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Also, psych ward bc I am mentally unstable rn and I don’t want to eat or take any medications.