I doubt the real problem is the door. Sounds like she has deeper issues with you and if I had to guess I would say it’s probably the video games.

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I don’t understand why it was an issue if she wasn’t locked out. Is this common with her?

She may be healing and now she has different needs.

dont do it dude. Have a talk about the lack of convo between you two.. Do not ask to see her texts. She will flip and there will be an argument. At least have some dignity and go thru her texts when she asleep lol

How much more do you need to know it's over, dude. You're blocked. She's with someone else.

You need to accept it's over or you're crossing into stalker/obsessive territory.

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Hey there.
Your relationship is supposed to be an audition for marriage, unless it's explicitly agreed that marriage is off the table.

The first basic bar is whether your partner WANTS to marry you. If they haven't proposed after 7 years, that is strong cause-indicative that he either doesn't want to marry, or that he doesn't want to marry YOU. Doubts and hesitation should be marginal after 7 years, and with a child already in the picture.

Even if it's a hesitance on practicality grounds (finances, etc.) 7 years is plenty of time to get all of that sort of thing sorted; and if he wants to marry you but still hasn't sorted things out, then that is strong cause-indicative that he fails another bar, which is that he's CAPABLE of sustaining a marriage with you.

This isn't automatically all on him, though.
You could be flunking the same sort of tests, since you're also auditioning. If your difficult "attitude' is particularly severe, then living with it for the rest of his life is a daunting proposition, thus your capability to sustain a marriage is also in serious question.

I wish the best of fortune and happiness to you three.

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You should share what happened. We could maybe help You.

the thing here is this. He knows he can get away with this crap because im betting he has many times in the past with you to no repercussions whatsoever. So maybe its time for a change.

You know, everyone does impulsive things like post on Reddit about a recently ended relationship. I don’t judge you for that.

But now, you have no excuse. You don’t have the crutch of your ex-bf & his family to lean on. You get to grow up now.

Thank you very much for the comment

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Naw, see the work of Dr. Helen Fisher on different ways we experience love, romantic love & sexuality. You can totally love somone and have a brief sexual thought about another -- and brief sexual thoughts seem pretty common from my talks with other people. But perhaps this is not a kind thing to mention to a partner. After all, unless you have a kink around these things, most people don't really want to hear that their partner experiences sexual thoughts towards others? Having a brief sexual thought about another is not a horrible thing, it's just a human thing.

I felt like I was finally getting over some of the hurt she caused me and willing to make amends. She made me sound like I was crazy. but now I'm starting to think I waas right all along and that she was cheating on me the entire time. I was right…she knows all of this but what does she do? She shows the entire f*cking world that she doesn't give a sh*t about my feelings.“

“She’s the nicest person I’ve ever met”

Well which is it? Stop lying to yourself. Stop looking at her Facebook.

You’re torturing yourself. If you fucked up, deal with it and be better next time. It doesn’t mean you deserve to hurt yourself more.

It’s over. She blocked you. She’s with someone else.

There is nothing you can tell her to get her back.

Sorry buddy.

This relationship is over, you need to accept that and move on. She is dating someone else, she is not looking to reconcile things with you.

In the future anger management classes could be very beneficial for you, especially considering it’s gotten you kicked out of multiple places. Use this time to work on yourself, find stable housing and a good job. A relationship shouldn’t be the biggest worry for you right now.

You are very ignorant

Keep up the therapy and talk with them more about this.

Good luck.

And her reasoning for inviting her back into your lives?