Wow, you are strong, resilient, and confident. Let her try her mind games, but pay her no mind. It appears her husband and your bf are starting to see it. Ask your bf how to handle when she is getting hostile. Maybe you can have a safeword that you use if she tries to cause problems. It's all on her.

If you need moral support that weekend, you can always give an update.

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Sheldon Cooper is that you in disguise

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Sadly not. :(

Can you move closer to the job?

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Aw, thank you so much for that. I've been feeling insecure lately so hearing that is really uplifting!!

Sadly it is a lot of travelling but it is well paying and family owned. While it has its issues it is definitely something he takes pride in being good at and wants to climb the ladder. Though he has spoken recently about looking elsewhere, nothing is in the works. Hopefully he can find some more joy in his job or something nearby.

Yep.

Wow, you are very sweet.

He sounds like he needs to find a job closer. That's a ton of travel. I'm exhausted reading about it.

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Oh, thank you! That's actually really lovely to hear :D no, he is a darling and appreciates all I do and I him.

This is a one off thing, thankfully!!

Thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹

I don't know, sounds like you're doing a phenomenal job at it. If what you're doing goes unappreciated, he is expecting too much.

His is work schedule a permanent thing, or is this a one off situation. That can be concerning for mental health long term.

You're doing great...

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If she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you.

It has only been two months. I would suggest pulling the rip cord.

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I don’t think there’s any way for you to find and warm this other woman, so I think you might just have to be okay with the fact it might’ve happened, but it’s not like you did it knowingly!

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She's still married, never should have started with her.

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