You are 18 and only been seeing this guy for 6 months? Do you live in the US? If so you should absolutely not be trying for a baby and frankly a 37 year old who wants a baby with an 18 year old is absolutely a red flag.

And it sounds like he doesn't respect your sexual boundaries. You've told him clearly that you would prefer sex to not last as long and he has ignored that. That is another big read flag.

You are young and will have plenty of time to meet people who are better suited for you. This is does not sound like a healthy relationship at all. And I'm begging you as much as a stranger on the internet can, DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH THIS GUY.

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I don't think you should forget it tho, learn and grow from this.

It's going to hurt for sometime It's true.

One, block her from everything.

And keep yourself busy, go out with friends, see family. Pick up a new hobby, learn a new language just don't stay idle.

Dating dad never works out. You are a child to him and are treated as such

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Are you 12?

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It doesn’t really matter if you find it cringe- you’d be doing them for her, because she likes them and to show you much you care and appreciate her. The fact that you haven’t been doing them says to me that you aren’t actually willing to step up for her spells a doomed relationship.

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I am interested so it’s fine I guess they’re very pretty. I like the one girl that has told me I smell good multiple times before and she even remembered to being a wrist brace for me to borrow, but idk if she like likes me actually or is just nice.

The lady might just think you’re a good dude and care about these women and is trying to play matchmaker.

You don’t know that she’s accurate, and “admirer” could just indicate they said you’re handsome or something.

If you’re not interested, just ignore it. And maybe tell the lady who told you that you make it a point to avoid workplace relationships or something of the sort, just to get her to stop

Yeah, that's why I feel sad and I can't really move on, can you please give me any advice that's could help me to completly forget this drama ? thank you tho

I actually do like one of them a lot, she’s really sweet. She’s told me I smell good a lot and let me borrow a wrist wrap because my wrist has been hurting but Idk I feel like if I asked for her number it wouldn’t go well

I didn’t realize it could be seen, I changed the ages and the rating a little bit so people wouldn’t know as I’ve asked my friends for advice as well.

Thank you for your advice, to be honest with you, I never thought we were gonna end up this way, and before we started dating, I planned almost everything to be a real MAN with and for her, I was ready for everything to keep her with me, make her happy, show her respect and give her as much attention as she needs, but now when I'm thinking about it, I failed and ended up acting like a child because of her, immaturity, I guess. I'm definitly gonna remove my SM, that the only way to stop thinking about her.

Some wise words for you:

Just because you heard from a 3rd party that someone likes you, doesnt mean you have to do anything at all.

Whether its 1 girl or 2, you dont have to react to the rumour/gossip. Because thats all it is- your other friend is getting involved and.. causing drama? Playing match maker? Being nosey? Unless you hear from someone directly that they like you, you dont have anything to respond to.

If you had particularly strong(er) feelings for someone, you’d already be gravitating towards them. But in this case, you don’t really have anything in mind that YOU want, so dont worry about it. No pressure to act any differently- if someone likes ya, its because you’re being yourself. Not reacting to some rumours and stressing out over what you need to do now :)

Well she's obviously going to make you out to be the bad guy. It's easier than to admit she messed up.

I don’t think she’s a 6/10. I came from a different country (tall, thin, white) where women look different and I was used to it. I actually realized that I prefer her look (mixed race, curvy) and that she’s the most attractive to me.

It was very immature of you to "rate" her in the first place let alone tell her about it. And if you're not willing to show her love in the way she appreciates, especially after saying something that makes her feel she's not your top choice, then just let her go. You don't sound like you're willing to put in any effort to show her you care. You're no good for her.

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Exactly man, he doesn't consider her good enough to be called a 10, he finds her love language cringe and is still with her for what? Atleast that girl deserves a better person than OP for sure

Considering his response, I agree she'll never believe him.