Call 911

The definition of "partner" has really changed over the years.

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My parents would murder me if they found out and I really can’t even live like a “normal” young adult lifestyle bc of my parents

He's old enough to be your dad. You still have a curfew. He's using you as a cock sleeve that's why he doesn't respect your boundaries. He doesn't care enough to make the effort he just wants to get some, when he wants. Sorry to be harsh but he's dating you because you're naive enough to put up with his shit and young enough to fulfill his desires.

Do not date in the workplace unless you are going to leave the job in less than a year.

Honey, run.

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My parents are okay they give me everything I need and I guess in hindsight they’re good parents just a little abusive at times physically and verbally and just very religious

For my own sanity I hope they are trolls. Otherwise we have a pandemic of teens in relationships with middle aged people. And I just can’t handle another pandemic

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Please stop seeing this old man who rapes you, insults you, treats you like garbage, and is trying to trap you with a pregnancy

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Sooooo - what’s your home life like? How do your parents treat you? Ever been verbally or physically abused or assaulted? Please don’t get pregnant.

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The f***….. girl how have you not seen the other thousands of posts about young girls and older men? Have you not read other posts and come to realize that the types of relationships are not healthy?

And how the hell are your parents okay with this?

Go be a young adult - hang out with friends and focus on yourself and making sure you are able to support yourself so you don’t get stuck in crappy relationship because.

Love is so bad at math.

We had another incident where it seemed kinda rapey but he flipped out when I said it was but i dont think he intends to hurt me he just goes for an hour but he does acknowledge I start drying up and like I’m not into it anymore so it’s a weird thing to think about

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I personally think they’re troll posts

So then why say that at all? This answer makes everything infinitely worse. You basically just said that you did find her a 6/10 because you’re used to a white demographic. You then slowly changed your “rating” to “the most attractive” because you learned to love her body and ethnicity/race. Ick.

ETA: I think people can initially not find someone as attractive, but really like their partner’s core; the attraction can grow as you become more intimate and grow the relationship. In this context, given OP’s answers, this is only surface level and not focused on the actual connection between them.

How tf does an 18 year old even end up getting in bed with a 37 year old

Like what possessed you

As far as advice goes, you shouldn't even be with this person in the first place, get out.

Please do not have a baby with this man. He's not treating you right and that will not get better with a baby involved.

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