ADHD may be a reason but it’s not an excuse. What are you doing to mitigate your disability? Meds? Therapy? Other strategies?

The stuff you listed isn’t OCD on her part. it’s common sense. I’d lose my shit if someone was putting a glass down without a coaster on one of my coffee tables or my piano. I would be annoyed as hell if my partner was leaving bread crumbs on the floor or not putting shit away or just shoving stuff wherever instead of where it belongs. The kitchen especially is a place where I expect everyone to pick up and put away because I don’t want to have to clean before I can cook or have to go hunting for a specific tool or the damned pot holders when I need them.

I have ADHD so I do understand that basic shit can be hard but again, that’s a reason, not an excuse. Do better or you’re not going to have a GF and place to live. No one wants to feel like a parent to their partner.

Thank you, we have not tried a chores list as yet, we have tried splitting workload and pro active owning it. Maybe writing it all down and maintaining it will work. Will give it a shot. Thank you.

i wish i could but due to a new job i have to stay for at least another two months anyways as there is a no move policy through training. i also dont want to give him the opportunity to stop paying bills out of spite and have that financially ruin me in the future.

I got proof queen❤️

Ok, this is strong Troll vibes right here.

You both desperately need to tried and true CHORES LIST. Who does what, HOW they do it, WHEN they do it, and check mark after doing it. This works

Would it be possible to move back home instead of having to wait for July?

You know the cycle. You know what to expect when you attempt to break it off. You know his tactics.

You need the courage and strength to not buy it.

Have someone there who can help you move, get it all done in one day.

Clean break:

>Sorry, this isn't working for us, we're a dysfunctional couple. It will be better for us to go our seperate ways.
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>I no longer want to be in this relationship.

Then you block all paths of contact.

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Grab what you can. Grab the important stuff.

Change your number, change your email, change your social media.

He won't change.

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haha your gf of 2 months is selfish for thinking she can have an opinion on your job. I’d dump her

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He’s a predator and is grooming you

Having a child with this person will be the biggest mistake of your entire life.

Ok and what did you expect as a response/result of saying that?

When I said it to her, I didn’t know I wanted to be in a relationship with her.

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I call troll!

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I'm gonna give you some benefit of the doubt and offer advice. When you are about to say something - anything really. Think to yourself "what do I want to achieve from this" ... If you'd done this when you rated your GF, you may have realised there was nothing positive that could come out of that.

I could have wrote that response for you when I read your original post, you are text book trauma induced and getting yourself signed up for more abuse and grooming. Please do some research about these types of traumas and work towards a healthier life path for yourself. This “partner” is not the answer. Nor is a baby at 18.

Soap opera aging

Been to prison for a while and had to take care of family members for years even in his 20s

I tnink you are a troll but for shits and giggles... why do you say he hasntbhad a normal life of a 36 year old man?