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Kubuubud t1_jecq0el wrote

Reply to comment by SystemicHappiness in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]

As someone with parents who SHOULD have gotten divorced, staying for the kids does not help the kids. Parents are the main example of a romantic relationship, so if theirs is toxic, kids learn that romance is toxic. It warped my views on love horribly and took many years of therapy to dissect the issue and heal. Your kids deserve to see a good model for loving relationships

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disposable_conduct t1_jecoz7n wrote

Reply to I (F 21) got tired of waiting for the man I love (M 25) and I had sex with someone else and don’t know how to feel by [deleted]

Who you sleep with while single shouldn’t matter for future relationships. Sleeping with others as a way too cope with feelings isn’t the best coping mechanism as so you’ve stated it doesn’t make you feel any better. Find a better way to release your frustrations. You are free to move on and pursue other relationships but don’t pursue them just as a means to get over or wait for someone. Live your life don’t wait on someone to return your feelings. If the time for you both ever comes then let it, but don’t dwell on something that could or couldn’t happen. Live in the now.

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Nightie_Whities t1_jecoan3 wrote

Reply to Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]

It sounds like she doesn’t like you at all. She seems repulsed by being touched by you.

I experienced this with my ex wife when she started cheating and fell head over heels for another guy (who was engaged no less). Suddenly she started acting like any physical touch was from a stranger.

Regardless though, it sounds like she just isn’t that into you.

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Reply to Why is it so hard for my (f22) boyfriend (M20) to care about me? by nyaaoneko

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