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Reply to Am I (28nb) being cagey for not wanting to divulge details of previous flings to my current bf (38m) by [deleted]

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paint-it-black1 t1_jeczhsh wrote

Reply to I (M19) friend (F19) recenlty found out she has a bf. Problem is I immediately thought "ah that sucks". by Substantial_Diet_485

I think this is common. A part of you might be a little sad she has a boyfriend because it might effect your relationship with her. For example, she might not have as much time to spend with you, as she once did.

I think it is good that you’re insightful and able to identify your thoughts and try to change them to positive ones. We all have negative thoughts about ourselves and others- even people we care about. Being able to recognize these thoughts, try to understand where and why we are feeling them, and make efforts at countering them is the best we can do in my opinion.

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Reply to I (M19) friend (F19) recenlty found out she has a bf. Problem is I immediately thought "ah that sucks". by Substantial_Diet_485

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downstairslion t1_jecyafv wrote

Reply to Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]

Oof. This is PPD, could also be PTSD from birth. I felt that the only time my husband looked at me or touched me at all was to initiate sex. It literally made my skin crawl. I felt abandoned and unloved and like he was just trying to get his dick wet. It wasn't until I sought treatment for my own mental health that my marriage could start healing.

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