Tell him you’re doing intermittent fasting and reaping the benefits as evidenced by your stable weight.

Holy shit... I wouldn't be surprised if she knows about it.

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Welp

What was the cause of the breakup? Because depending on what it is he wants to make sure those issues were resolved first

That's literally a life changing operation. You are in a abusive relationship and can't see it. There are others out there who won't treat you like crap.

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Everyone suggesting the wife is cheating should know that just last month OP posted in the New Jersey r4r sub with the following ("Hung white muscular male looking for a fuck buddy all times of the day. No drama, no bullshit. FEMALES ONLY. Message me and I’ll send picture").

He also made several posts in 2021 asking for nudes from OnlyFans girls.

Who knows, maybe they're in an open relationship and his wife knows he's doing all this and is ok with it. But maybe not.

Also, a year ago he apparently suggested she have sex with a woman, and she responded by requesting a divorce.

There is a LOT of information missing from this post.

Edit: Oh, and in December he posted in the New Jersey r4r sub as well, with the following: "30 (M4F) very attractive hung jacked white male in Warren county. Looking for discreet FWB, insanely horny. Willing to travel"

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Yes sorry high chance your marriage is over.

First she needs to be sent for professional help - to determine if she is suffering from PPD.

If she’s not in a massive bout of PPD then she’s either cheated or is cheating, so next step is paternity testing (probably a good idea even if PPD to put your mind at rest)

Then marriage counselling - this is non negotiable, if she says no again, go straight for the divorce attorney.

Not safe around kids? Great assumption there.

OP said himself that she's a good mother.

Because she doesn't want op anymore, doesn't make her a shit mother.

Maybe op isn't the fantastic and caring husband he's making out. You do only have his side of the story.

Sounds like she despises him and that doesn't happen for no reason.

I mean, considering OP posted last month in the New Jersey 4fr sub with the following ("Hung white muscular male looking for a fuck buddy all times of the day. No drama, no bullshit. FEMALES ONLY. Message me and I’ll send picture"), I'm more concerned about him cheating than her.

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Idk man texting every day is excessive. If you downvote you’re probably super clingy

So come from a place of concern, not that his breath is bad, but that it may be a sign of infection and an infection in the mouth can actually be life threatening.

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You’ve made it clear that you have limits to the emotional intimacy you’re willing to share with him, which is entirely up to you. It’s his choice whether to remain with you after knowing this.

She's staying for the kid. Hate to break it to ya, but it might be well past over.

I would say it's something related to PPD, but if she's refusing to seek therapy then there's no fix

It's not gonna get better. It's only gonna get worse.

Looks like it’s over at her end.

Talk to her and discuss how you two can just co-parent.

All of my long term relationships but one began and were conducted in pre-cell phone days. I never went 10 days without talking to the person I was dating!! Even the 2 - 3 days you mentioned is a long time to go without contact with someone you care about and whose company you enjoy.

I'm guessing that she was the one always reaching out first and now that she's stopped doing that to gauge your level of interest, you showed her your level of interest by forgetting she existed for 10 freaking days.

You don't sound terribly enthusiastic about this woman. It has nothing to do with 'this age of constant contact'. Once every 2 - 3 days (and as long as 10 days!!) is hardly 'constant'. sounds like she really isn't on your mind much at all and you rarely have an urge to speak to her and see how she's doing. Cut her loose man.

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Oh my god, stop trying to force this relationship to work. You should be with someone who is all in and WANTS to be in a relationship l