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YourRAResource t1_jedcqed wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I [M30] don't know how to tell my partner [M26] that I'm not the one out of the two of us with unhealthy eating habits by [deleted]
It's honestly both sad and concerning that his mother is in the medical field and is completely ignorant of reality.
therealcosmicnebula t1_jedcm2g wrote
Reply to I [M30] don't know how to tell my partner [M26] that I'm not the one out of the two of us with unhealthy eating habits by [deleted]
Tell him the truth.
Eating during a certain amount of hours is fine. As long as you are getting all your nutrients. But overeating is a problem no matter what.
thegreatmei t1_jedckjf wrote
Reply to comment by Ebbie45 in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
Wow. That changes EVERYTHING. If she knows, suspects, or has a weird gut feeling..then her being grossed our sounds less like potential PPD and more like she's over his shit.
Ebbie45 t1_jedceea wrote
Reply to comment by UKNZ007Tubbs in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
Well I left open the possibility that maybe it's an open relationship, though that seems kind of doubtful. Him specifically requesting a "discreet" FWB seems off if that's the case. Sure, she could be cheating, who knows. But she also requested a divorce a year ago after he suggested she sleep with a woman.
So idk. There seems to be so much missing from this post that could provide really helpful context.
UKNZ007Tubbs t1_jedc5vx wrote
Reply to comment by Ebbie45 in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
So they both may have cheated (OP for certain)
CrazyCat-DogLady t1_jedc0yk wrote
Reply to I (M19) friend (F19) recenlty found out she has a bf. Problem is I immediately thought "ah that sucks". by Substantial_Diet_485
You good. I'm a woman and have experienced similar feelings of disappointment at finding out someone I vibe with is taken. What makes the difference is how you respond to those feelings. As long as you can continue to respect her and her boundaries, you're fine. If you need to break off the friendship, that's fine too.
The reason you're feeling guilty over your immediate response is because of all these horror stories we see (especially on Reddit) of men going off the rails when they fall "victim" to the "friend zone". Your feelings are perfectly normal.
purpleraccoon911 t1_jedbybl wrote
LengthinessFresh4897 t1_jedbw7b wrote
She threw a wine bottle at you and you had to get stitches if that’s not enough for you to leave idk what to tell you
ReenMo t1_jedbvxi wrote
Reply to comment by Ebbie45 in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
These one sided reports are so interesting to go back and read after new relevant info is introduced.
Ebbie45 t1_jedbsjb wrote
Reply to comment by FullFrontal687 in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
It might not be a PPD issue. OP asked her to have sex with a woman a year ago and she requested a divorce afterwards. He also has repeatedly posted in r4r subs describing his dick size and asking for a "discreet" female "fuckbuddy."
It sounds like there's a lot of contextual info conveniently left out of this post that really skews what is written here.
[deleted] OP t1_jedbpdr wrote
Reply to comment by illumahotti3 in Am I (28nb) being cagey for not wanting to divulge details of previous flings to my current bf (38m) by [deleted]
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Ebbie45 t1_jedbmhu wrote
Reply to comment by UKNZ007Tubbs in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
> If she’s not in a massive bout of PPD then she’s either cheated or is cheating
OP has repeatedly posted in an r4r sub describing his dick size and requesting a female "fuck buddy." Just to give some more context.
FullFrontal687 t1_jedbizv wrote
Reply to comment by Camp_Munch in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
Yeah, let's just pretend that Debora Green and Andrea Yates never existed.
[deleted] OP t1_jedbcum wrote
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Unable_Duty7809 t1_jedbc7q wrote
No red flags here. None whatsoever.
Seriously, meat pocket? The trolls need to try harder.
Ebbie45 t1_jedba3k wrote
Reply to comment by ReenMo in Is my marriage over ? 31M/29F by [deleted]
OP has repeatedly posted in New Jersey r4r subs describing the size of his dick and requesting a female "fuck buddy" - specifically a "discreet" one.
Sounds like he's the one who's interested in someone else.
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Reply to My (22 FTM) girlfriend (56F) is trying to force me to get bottom surgery. by jda0201
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