Valentines day was 6 weeks ago. You have no way of knowing what's happened with them relationship wise since then.. you only think you know.

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“Not my circus, not my monkeys.” I would just Ignore and move on. That chapter is closed, don’t reopen it

Lol no I have known her since middle school.

Not your problem.

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You can create an account and anonymously let her know, and then let her deal with it how she does. I doubt that she can hear it from you anyway.

She does not want any contact with you if you are blocked on everything. Respect that.

Focus on yourself. Her life is none of your business anymore.

he probably has but they may have been brushed off as subtle. A full blown conversation if she refuses. Time to get out

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She probably doesn't like you because you cheat on her

Even if they brake up you will not get back together, so if you have that thought in the back of your mind forget it.

If I was you I wouldn’t do anything, not my circus not my monkeys

She has blocked you and you have acknowledged that it is for good reason. Leave her alone. Her new relationship is none of your business even if he is cheating on her. I would potentially tell a mutual friend if you have one, but you absolutely shouldn't be trying to contact her.

Lmaoo! Why did this sound so real and feel like it’s about to happen?

my parents, they also raised me with the ideals of a core belief that “mood is a choice”. which may be true but no matter how much they insulted me, if I even showed the slightest reaction of anger I would be mocked for it “ohhh did those words hurt you” “are you gonna cry little baby” and my personal favorite “quit being such a pantsy ass bitch and shut up”. in a perfect world of theres people never cry and only the weak are sensitive.

That made it hard for me when i first started experiencing real depression around 7th grade. just one day i guess i just lost all ability to enjoy life. nothing in my life brought me any sort of pleasure joy or satisfaction, I felt like I was just purely existing as the world turned. then go home and get berated for throwing a pity party feeling sorry for myself and being a weak lazy unmotivated loser. Well enough time went on and after my father trying to beat me into submission and consistent beration from my mother... i guess thats where i lost nearly all respect for them and the relationship truly crumbled in my eyes.

but fuck what do i know, im just out here throwing a pity party feeling sorry for myself right? if only i could just "quit being a pantsy ass bitch get my shit together and quit being the victim" i could function normally

How well do you know this person? Sounds like you're in a movie about a guy whose family is arranging his marriage to an entitled and disinterested woman. The movie ends when he realises his dorky sidekick best friend is actually beautiful without glasses and they run off instead.

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Even if she did. Do you think this i made an unreasonable request? And this is transactional on my part?

Because you're trying alone and unmedicated and with a brain chemistry like this, that doesn't work. You're trying to tell yourself you have to be 100% in control but you don't and you aren't. Your parents were shitty, the school system failed you, the legal system failed you, you're failing yourself. That's alot of people involved for one single person to be able to handle the outcome, don't you think?

You really need to get checked out. A headache before crying is not normal... after a long crying session maybe/sometimes but before?

Most likely, she sold the shoes, which was why she was unable to take any photos of it.

Profound depression/PPD was my guess but I absolutely agree with you. He disgusts her, seems like this is over.