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The problem is that her twitter is privated, don't want to get my friend muddled up in this because they're friends too :/

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If my bf kissed a work colleague and then took her to lunch a week later no matter the circumstance that would look extremely suspicious he should have a brief conversation about boundaries and explain he’s in a relationship and then tell his girlfriend because she deserves to know

I get you’re trying to help, but this isn’t something you want to get involved in.

There is no scenario where she doesn’t think you’re trying to sabotage her relationship to get her back.

If you’re concerned that she will be hurt, maybe give a heads up to one of her friends to be on the lookout, if he’s cheating they’ll find out.

I am lucky. Very. I recognise that. I don’t think what I did was wrong though, I was genuinely unsure whether I was ready to be in a relationship with someone. I understand that this ‘limbo’ was hurtful for her and I’ve tried my best to make up for it.

I also didn’t think about it for over a month, sorry if the post was unclear, it was probably a week until I message saying I was willing to try when we were back at Uni - we live in completely different places so couldn’t see each other even if we wanted to for a month.

I mean I would be disgusted with my husband winking at me too if he was a cheater 🤷

Its not his job to pay for all her stuff. I would tell him he needs to be more independent and less giving to her, if he wants to have a future with you. He can get his own place with that salary. She needs to figure it out on her own.

Say you saw her tweets and ask her what’s up. Then you probably need to dump her because someone who cares this much about an ex isn’t ready for a new relationships.

Sounds like you’re the rebound.

> I understand his point, but to be completely honest, even with that amount of money, i strongly believe his mum will still ask him to support her other expenses.

She very likely will

> So I’m now thinking, is he going to start giving her half of his salary from now on? What about his savings? What about our future? Will his mum still continue to pressure my boyfriend even though she has 3 other kids?

All legitimate questions to ask him and it’s best to do so now. If he will always put his mother first it’s seems like that’s a dealbreaker for you (and many others). If you wait until you are married, buy a house, or even worse have kids things will be much more complicated to end.

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You have treated this girl poorly by jerking her around. It’s not like you were getting married or have a baby or commit to being together for life, we’re talking about being in an exclusive relationship so not sure what your issue is. You are very lucky she’s giving you the time of day and she has NOTHING to be sorry about.

I think it’s worth exploring why you feel disrespected or uncomfortable that your girlfriend gave her number to someone. Do you feel that your girlfriend shouldn’t give her number out to people, specifically guys?

Recognize how fortunate you are that she even stuck around. Getting blown off and rejected, that you’ll “think about it” for over a month before getting back to her… most people would assume you’re not interested at all and move on.

I dont have advice for letting this bother you less, except to accept that YOU made all the flakey choices that lead to her seeing other people.

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He is a smooth talker

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His body, his choice.

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Yes it is cheating get divorced

Based on your post history you probably deserve it.