What about YOUR PARTNER?

First of all, those videos are delusional. They are selling simplification of reality where "they" (being women in this case) are the bad ones while you (men) are the good ones. Complete waste of your time.

Besides if you were to date a cheater, she would find a way to cheat regardless of your effort. Opportunity does not create cheaters, it only enables them. Conversely if she faithful, she will be so without your supervision as well.

Addressing alcohol issue. Yes getting dead drunk in bars/clubs can lead to many bad things, and cheating is far from the top of the list. However, it depends where would they go to, it's not every place is some pit full of predators. Not to mention they will be together in all girls group.

Just listen to airaqua. I don’t see him as such a bad guy, but maybe he is. Airaqua is definitely not a fan. The woman’s point of view is better.

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With peace and love, there’s a reason he’s a grown man and dating someone who was a teenager at the start of the relationship, and it’s because he really should not get away with this behavior.

It sounds like he’s a mamas boy, and if he’s not willing to work on that, you’re signing up for this three way relationship. I would really not expect him to change at all

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And it’s his friends pot. That’s an excuse a teenager gives a mother. He’s lying. Leave. Expect better next time.

What the fuck is up with a 26 year old dating an 18 year old. Goddamn some of the relationships on here I'm just like these men are walking red flags

I think you can clearly see why he doesn't get anyone his own age. The mother is not the issue. Your boyfriend is.

I’m 35 and have no social media. I have never understood the appeal and have absolutely no interest in putting my life out there. If my friends/family want to know how I’m doing, they can call me.

There have been a few women in my life who think it’s a red flag, and it just showed we aren’t compatible. If you feel the same, then leave. The fact he doesn’t have social media isn’t inherently a red flag.

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put* Again, you're right. It's time i focus on myself. Thank you, kind stranger :)

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It’s not about showing him - it’s about you choosing a brighter future with someone you trust is honest. Don’t even give this man your spite. Give all your energy to you and move on for you !

They’re people saying whatever will make them money.

Stop watching them, they’re filling your head with poison and they’re going to make you so paranoid you cause the demise of your own relationship.

He’s lying and that’s a dick move

Bet he is. Thank you :)

you're quite funny😂

You're right though. I should show him there's consequences to everything he's out me through.

Point is that it’s cool these days to be off social media

I think this CAN be a red flag for someone who is in a relationship and cheating. There are definitely people who just aren't into social media though. I think it's more like a yellow flag, and definitely not worth breaking up over on its own. If you get other weird feelings, just keep it in mind as a possibility, but I wouldn't stress about it on its own.

I can’t answer the Skype question because I don’t use it, but I’d be alarmed as well. Especially if it’s just meaningless conversations, he’d show you. He’d be 100% comfortable showing you! Something doesn’t sound right here. And unless y’all are spies and he’s undercover (lol) there’s no reason for the secrecy. I feel like he’s panicking and showing you quick glances so you don’t ask anymore questions.

As for how you handle that is on you.

Not only is he a cheater and a liar but he also thinks you’re stupid. You can do so much better!