Not really. I've been in a sexless marriage for years, so sex once a month sounds amazing. Probably the best thing would be marriage counseling.

No but i think you shouldn’t constantly reject your partner and should let them find another outlet or just leave so they can find someone worth dating wish similar desires.

Fair answer would be no. I wouldn’t run my business in negatives but I know a lot of startups do and that’s one way to go. That said, it’s putting me in a space to choose money or comforts vs love. I do love him. But seeing a life with him with such raging uncertainties is making me want to run the other direction. I have a bandwidth of how much uncertainty I can handle and that life breaches it many times over. 😔

And just when I thought you'd gone away... At least you made the guy your bf cheather on you wwith closer in age this time instead of a kid.

It's not a punishment though. They shouldn't be together if sex is OP's #1 priority, but you're painting out OP's gf to be this person who's maliciously withholding sex. Do you think that OP is owed sex?

First: missing payroll is a BIG DEAL. The business depends on the employees. Maybe look at the whole payroll process. Are you paperless? Can you send the paycheck to their phones with and emailed "stub"? Do you do a lot of the bookkeeping?

If you have a business together you will sometimes have to make decisions that are right for the business and there are no "sides".

Keeping yourself afloat is always the most important thing. You can't be there for anyone else if you aren't there for yourself.

Have that long talk with your husband when he comes back. The business needs a plan for emergencies.

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Well, it’s up to YOU to take control and leave when you’re tired of being the NPC in the relationship.

There are no prizes for “best supporting actress” in a relationship.

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They can date each other or other people with the same general (lack of) interest. Why should I be punished for it? Sex is one of my favorite things.

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One reason not to tell his family: it is morally wrong and you will be responsible for his suicide. You should be angry with your boyfriend not with him.

Telling his family is mean and vindictive. Do you really want to be that kind of person? What exactly would that accomplish? Don’t lower yourself like that, you’re not in high school any more, so be an adult and handle this like an adult.

Just walk away from both of them. It’s your cheating boyfriend you should be angry with (and break up with) not this other guy.

Aromantic and asexual people exist though. Are they not allowed to have significant others because they often times aren't motivated by sex or conventional intimacy? Your idea of how a relationship is supposed to work is very narrow minded and restrictive.

Should split based on income. No good partner should want their partner to struggle financially when they could help IMO.

Consequently don't agree to pay for something you can't afford just to make him happy.

Have you tried a custom size? Is it too tight?

Totally. My wife is a great person and a great mother. She's incredibly caring and people really like her. But those people also don't live with her and see the huge emotions. On her bad days it's like an emotional tornado of anger and tears where you feel like literally anything you say will get attacked. These are all just things to consider. You're only 18 so you've got a long way to go before you actually consider marrying someone (I hope), and in all honesty you'll probably date other people before you finally do settle down (or just decide not to get married). Just don't feel like you can't leave the relationship because of the disorder. It doesn't make you a bad person or a jerk in any way. She got dealt some bad cards, but it doesn't mean you have to deal with those consequences.

Those messages were very cold.... I was in training when the whole Russia/Ukraine thing kicked off and I have relatives on both sides. I was pretty sleep deprived and stressed during most of the training and it showed when I came back.
6 guys thing, it's that they were all one night stands over a short period of time and it hurt when I found out.
But the fact that she almost had a kid (unintentionally) with a guy during our break hurt the most.
Thanks for putting a logical spin on this. It helps.

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It's extremely rare for it to be okay to out someone. Even though this guy is being shitty, the potential danger you're causing him is not something he deserves. A lot of what happened probably stems from his fear of coming out, due to what has likely been a very homophobic upbringing. Don't out him.

It's best to just move on.

Your boyfriend cheated on you, right? Just put all of these people behind you by breaking up with him.

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That makes sense, thank you!

So you married a controlling gaslighting manipulative asshole who bullies you and physically assaulted you. I don’t know what advice you want here. My advice would be to divorce his dumb ass ASAP.

No it’s not wrong to want to work ANYWHERE IN YOUR HOUSE where you pay the rent?!

Honestly it sounds like he married to get housing for his family.