Imagine you're shopping at a store and a stranger comes up and hands you £10 and says "this is for you". You'd probably feel kinda sketched out and suspicious of why they're doing that, right? I live in the US but I imagine that might be a similar feeling to getting a tip in a place where tipping isn't a normal thing.

He has his dating app set to be matched with 20 year-olds and he is 43?

There's nothing illegal here so just message him and keep the conversation growing. The power dynamic will always be against you. Your chance of success with someone like this is VERY slim unless you plan on just sleeping with him.

Imagine for a second... you want to date a guy who hasn't been born yet. He is more than double your age. He is looking for girls like you for a reason and it is NEVER a good reason.

> I expressed my disappointment to her twice, but out of nowhere, she became angry.

so your GF cooks for you and you bash her when she does? What is the best course of action? how about not bashing someones food when they make it for you. You sound like a douche. I like how you premise the whole thing with 'postpartum' GF, you know really try to put your shitty communication skills on the back burner and make it about how your GF is someone inherently in the wrong.

[deleted]

I see. i don't know which is better to ask her on tho, groupme or instagram?

I was also thinking of something along the lines of like "hey ava its been awhile, but you seemed cool id like to take you on a coffee date or whatever you like to drink"

Agreed. Im not exactly worried what she's doing in particular. I was just wondering if have many accs is a red flag. She knows all the logins to them and everything.
For future reference i suppose is why i asked.

[removed]

Would groupme or instagram be better?

I was just curious about why anyone in general would have so many different accounts. She remembers passwords easily. She's very smart and knows how to play the game. I guess im asking so i can understand if having so many different social media accounts pertaining to different relationships they have had in the past is a red flag or not. Like when we first got together and i looked her up, there were like 5 different ones to pick from. Though it was odd , I never questioned it until now.

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

• We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

• Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

• ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Joke advice or advice that is conspiratorial or just plain terrible will be removed, and users my be subject to a ban.

• No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

• All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

• What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

You’ve already purposefully harmed her. Now you’re trying to delay her happiness in life by withholding the truth from her. Helluva healthy attitude for marriage there, bud.

[removed]

Yeah..

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

• We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

• Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

• ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Joke advice or advice that is conspiratorial or just plain terrible will be removed, and users my be subject to a ban.

• No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

• All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

• What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

I know, but years down the road if you get worn down you'll have an easy out. For now maybe just try to get her in couples counseling or just take it day by day.

Of course as a huge DBag, you’re more concerned about talking with her than your wife… soon to be twice divorced Guy.

Don’t settle for second place dude. Find someone who won’t screw you over.

Good luck

There's a subreddit for everything: /r/bigdickproblems/

[removed]

[removed]

yawn...this sub is just sad really. they should just rename it r/badcreativewriting or r/beginnertrolls or r/nonsensepostsbutpleasereplycuzineedattention.

Y’all deserve to die alone without ever having a healthy relationship. Y’all are both really mentally unwell people.

This is something for your husband to work out with his colleague. If they are friendly at work, she may feel close to him as a friend and doesn't realize how her behavior is coming across to you. If it makes your husband uncomfortable, he should let her know, or start to distance himself from her at work, or whatever. Or maybe she is just socially awkward and doesn't understand personal boundaries.

If she asks you personal questions, don't answer them. Have an answer ready, like, "Oh, my husband and I don't discuss personal details about our relationship" and then change the topic.

[removed]

Sounds like you're in your head about it. A mental block never helps for a man or a woman when trying to climax. It sounds like you need to have an emotional connection in order to enjoy yourself properly. I would suggest seeing a therapist and having them help you through the mental block. Your ex really fucked you up and it's worth it to talk to someone.