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Reply to I (23m) am suspicious of my fiance (23 f) who I know to be very loyal by throwRA4236777

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yellowduckfeet t1_jeg55gb wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [22F/28M] I woke up to see that fiancé left for work without saying anything after a heavy discussion last night and I don't know if I should reach out or wait. by [deleted]

>which I already contributed little to as I struggled to organize my thoughts, and was really mostly him venting and brainstorming

You're already admitting that you didn't communicate with him because you struggled to organize your thoughts. That is not good communication.

You're 22, I don't think you should be relying on your boyfriend to wake you you up for your interview, you should be able to do that yourself.

He's possibly busy at work? Let him go through his day, maybe make him dinner for when he comes home and then talk to him during it.

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trishsf t1_jeg51lk wrote

Reply to How do I [24f] go about telling a guy [24m] I’m seeing that his hygiene is an issue for me? Without hurting his feelings? by [deleted]

Truth? You can’t bring this up without hurting his feelings. You don’t just think he’s a bit dirty. You think that every part of his body is smelly and disgusting. You can say that smoky smell and taste is a turn off for you and that is fair. I don’t think that would hurt his feelings. You can say that good hygiene is a big deal to you.

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throwawayOvershare1 OP t1_jeg4ufe wrote

Reply to comment by MarvellousIntrigue in My gf (24f) broke up with me (30m) after a month into an overseas trip by throwawayOvershare1

Appreciate the response. Amount of sex partners can affect the ability to pair bond though, and unfortunately it seems like that is the case with her :(.
But yeah, her having unprotected sex with another guy and not telling me till much later, definitely hurt. Definitely questioned things, but again it's so hard to be logical when you genuinely like someone.

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jamicam t1_jeg4htw wrote

Reply to My gf [F22] is unhappy with me [M24] because I asked her if she'd be comfortable with my meeting an ex who asked to catch up. My gf wasn't comfortable with it, so I said no to a meetup. Said ex is in a serious relationship & we ended amicably, and apparently the latter fact makes my gf unhappy too? by [deleted]

You declined the invite because of your gf's reaction, not because you knew it is a bad idea to meet up with an ex while you are in a committed relationship.

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Reply to Is there something wrong with me (23f) boyfriend (23m) by throwRaPurse

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Reply to why do i (28f) feel like i can’t break up with my (35m) boyfriend even though i am FED up? by Neat-Lawfulness9586

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