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Reply to My (20F) boyfriend (21M) seeks absolute fairness in the relationship and it's stressing me out by ThrowRA_Chinatsu

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HeatherReadsReddit t1_jegclkk wrote

Reply to Husband(30m) doesn't want me to go to see my parents(25f) by GOKU2442

You go see your family and have a great time.

And while you’re there, make an appointment with a divorce attorney, so that you can find out what you need to do to get away from the controlling, childish, emotionally manipulative man that you married. He sounds just as toxic as his family.

You also make an appointment with a good therapist, so that you have support, and can figure out why you would even consider canceling your trip when your husband had his temper tantrum. He won’t get better without actual help from a professional.

Divorce him and have a great life without him. You’re too young to be dealing with such behavior for the rest of your life.

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Reply to I (29 F) have been with my husband (29 M) for 10+ years and he no longer associates with his friends. by ThrowRABadBabysitter

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BarnacleTop5037 OP t1_jegc5mc wrote

Reply to comment by CephalopodSpy in My (27M) Gf (26F) of 2 years did not invite me along to her bday movie stream night by BarnacleTop5037

Ill have to talk to her. But I think I will wait until afterwards

Unfortunately I know for absolute certainty I’m not invited along. They have a discord event & group made for it and guess who’s not a part of it..

I even briefly asked her when she first told me the plans if I could tag along… and I was met with a “sorry no no, this will be a little bit more tight knit”

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BinkoBankoBonko t1_jegc4np wrote

Reply to 18M 18F Asian fetish by eybosscan

100% tell your white bride about your Asian fetish. How else can she fulfill your desires?

You are both full-fledged adults so the conversation should go over well.

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