You broke up with her and she kissed someone else. She doesn't have to and won't regret this the rest of her life; it's a trivial thing she did and she didn't do it to you. You dumped her and she reacted. It's part of dumping someone, that the person you dump may lash out or run out and do something sexually with someone else? If you can't stand the thought of kissing her anymore, and you already dumped her for (lol) feeling you were no longer meant to be, perhaps leave each other as ex partners and move on?

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Obviously not… 😂

I’m confused. He’s a grown adult right? Is there some reason he can’t be alone for a few days? Is he disabled in some way?

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Holy shit you’re still posting about this? There are multiple different types of finance. What he does is still finance. You need to move on.

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He doesn’t complain, he makes jokes saying he doesn’t have friends anymore, and I’ve even asked in our couples therapy sessions (we go for maintenance, not big issues) and he swears up and down he’s good.

Two choices. Ask him why he said he was a banker when he’s not. A project manager makes financial decisions and it sounds as if he also is involved in getting initial investments. But. He lied. It’s recent. I would move on. I wouldn’t even trust that you actually know what his job is.

The girl is unhappy with her life and jealous of yours, and possibly trying to get it. It’s sad, but inappropriate. Shut her down harder next time

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You're welcome, young Padawan.

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Well, if you are going to stay with this treat, obviously rationalizing and reason isn't working with her.

Perhaps you ought to say, "You know what, after what you shared, I realized it just isn't worth reconnecting with an old girlfriend and I am not going to".

then end the damn conversation.

If she keeps festering, you have a hella insecure bedbug there

That’s true. I don’t know if it actually bothers him or not because he jokes that he “doesn’t have friends he has my friends”. But he’s more fluent in sarcasm than English so I can’t tell sometimes.

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Sounds like she likes attention. You did the right thing by talking to your husband and he did the right thing but putting her in her place.

More than half the issues here could be solved with communication

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He sounds like he’s full of shit. Ask him why he isn’t in banking anymore.

Totally agree.

You gotta create space, girl! Every day you guys continue like this is a nail in the coffin.