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I think confronting her would make you look jealous and insecure. If your partner is ok with just ignoring her, go that route. It sounds like you trust him and he’s not interested, so don’t let it get to you.

Ask him to explain.

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You didn't just offer her sex, you offered her companionship (going out and doing stuff, joking, talking daily, etc.

No, it sounds like she's in no way capable of a deep relationship and doesn't want that right now, but it doesn't look like she "just used you for sex." (Source: Been there, seen that.)

It sounds to me like she did enjoy speding time with you, but she also didn't want to lead you on into thinking it was more than what sounds like an actual-friends with benefits kind of thing, so she did the right thing and broke it off when she noticed that you were starting to get that impression. You should be grateful for that, because, believe me, it sucks when these situations linger on with ambiguity.

Of course it’s best if he does it. She knows you exist and doesn’t care. It has to come from him.

Yeah, he lied on the dating app. Just ask him why.

How did he react with you when you were totally needy?

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Boo hoo...guess what the first few months of dating are about? they are about finding out if you like the person enough to be with them.

>Said she wasn’t sure she wanted serious but liked seeing me and didn’t know.

>So I was seeing this girl for 2 months.

gosh, looks like she figured it out..you weren't used, you just didnt get that hot piece of ass for yourself. Huge difference.

>I knew she was a party girl. She did coke on weekends etc.

Not really sure why you are so upset. You weren't used. She didn't deceive you. You knew going in what she was about. She didnt lie to you....you were just rejected. Now man up, go find another coke hoe and this time turn a hoe into a housewife!!

Why? Where did this rule come from?

I didn't mean to not pick her up I figured her friend or whatever had a car and would drop her off she said her phone was about to die so she couldn't respond that's why I didn't

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I don’t understand why we have to cut off people we spent pieces of our lives with. I’ll never get this.

There is no gentle way to go through his laundry list of missed personal care.

He has all sorts of funk going on- so you have multiple issues here.

If you want this, you are going to have to tell him the truth. Perhaps you approach it a bit more indirectly and express it as preferences like...

"Not sure if you notice, but I always make sure to shower and smell good for you...I love it when my guy smells fresh and clean too...."

But I will be honest. I think either he is incredibly lazy and shortsighted or he was completely failed at being raised to care for himself. I am not sure simple relationships will motivate this dude to make huge, meaningful changes.

Nope. Of course you aren’t comfortable with your gf going to a hotel room with another guy. You could have asked where she was going and picked her up though. I think you ended the conversation because you were put off. I don’t blame you but don’t say you couldn’t pick her up. All you had to do was ask where she was going.

Has a ring stopped other people from trying to pursue someone? You have morals, she does not.

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