Ask any woman out there what they look for in a man and I guarantee you that none will go "Well...For starters he must be really depressed and have 0 belief in working on himself, be a constant ball of stress filled with insecurities and use me to get over his Ex. Oh, and I'd really like it if he also looks down on women, has misogynistic attitudes, self-deprecates himself constantly and ruined his previous relationship from cheating on his girlfriend and then trying to control her".

But sure. Definitely women's fault that you keep on getting rejected.

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Is it normal to still feel somehow love towards her right now?…. One part of me is saying she can never be trusted and the other part still sees the girl i fell in love with

ask your husband to do this.

if you know what time she's coming, ask your husband to wait with you in front of your apartment door, start to do a really hot PDA, hugging, kissing, grab his penis or ask him to grab your ass, make sure she can see. when she walked pass, stop for a bit and you say hi to her. and ask him to ignore her.

just make sure your son doesnt see what happened.

I’m not sure he will understand

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Hé works all week

>I don't want this relationship anymore. Am I overacting?

Why would you think you're overreacting... your judgment is sound:

• She has been rude, cold and distant with me
• Giving me the silent treatment for 3 months
• she didn't celebrate my birthday
• didn't celebrate me getting my bachelor degree and getting a good job.
• Sometimes she gets mad over little things because she got borderline personality disorder

Taking the 'cheating theory' out of the equation, you're left with the above.

That is enough of a reason to end a relationship.

She already stuck you with the knife... the cheating theory is just her twisting it.

Follow through with this:

>I don't want this relationship anymore.

This relationship doesn't sound like its worth being in. Break up, take some time for yourself, and find someone who can offer a healthy relationship and make you feel loved.

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Any chance your wife may be down for an open marriage? If she’s not interested in having sex with you maybe you can stay married and just get laid on the side? Cause the other 2 options are you staying sexually frustrated forever or divorce.

Surely there are other things you like doing together besides watching movies?

Have some self respect and break up. That's not a loving suportive relationship. The trust is lost and without out trust it's just a matter of time until it collapses. Just end it now.

probably is..You want to have something a bit more serious and she doesn't..Your brain is probably wired differently, might be from the overuse of stimulants by your mom while in you were in her belly...could also be that some people like to just take some cock, do some blow, take some more cock, do some more blow, munch some box, do some more blow, do some more blow and then pass out watching Oprah Winfrey...We all have different things of what we want.

If there is such a long list it would make him feel attacked they probably aren't compatible. Dating is a time to decide if two people are compatible. It's okay to decide you are not.

Your husband's response should have been - because I love and respect my wife and then stopped talking to her.

No no I get it I do have some accountability and I accept it. I just have Issues with the fact of its okay for her to a hotel room with a guy even if it is just to smoke but tables turned I would be the prick who went to a hotel with some female ya know

I think you may have buried the lede here a bit. If your partner is not interested or invested in improving your sex life, the best tips and ideas aren’t going to mean much. This is something you have to both be working on together.

What does she say when you talk to her about this? Is she not interested in sex at all, or more that she’s fine with the status quo and you want more adventure/frequency?

Was it always like this? A recent change?

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Time to make other living arrangements. Take a look at you financial options and see if you can afford your own place.

Until then maybe relocate to do you work at a library or cafe. I understand this is alot and seems like a jump but you didnt marry all them and as half of the relationship, you deserve half of the say with other living with you. You SO show you zero respect with this.

Let him play the victim. Start looking at your options unless he start working with you. You will see how he acts if he has to make a choice

Work to live a better life

Nothing is wrong with you. Someone can be the greatest human alive but they just aren’t our human. We see it on here constantly.

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