the bait is so strong here it is hard to resist...I am giving you exactly what you want. hopefully you will give me what I want next..

well look at it this way...you meet someone and they show you and tell you exactly what they want. Have ok sex. Get on fine and then when you go to tell them you want them to stop and only focus on you, they do a line and tell you to move on as they have other things they enjoy..then they go do another line, have some amazing sex (trust me sex is not amazing when coked out), get on great, do some more coke and party..

>How many people do you know that do that.

well being I worked in bars/clubs for decades I can safely say I know a shit ton of people that do that...You might need to throw in a missing detail as the bait is getting kinda dry.

OMG... go get a Covid test, stop spreading it, and apologize for your ignorance! How are we almost 4 years into this, and you have no understanding or awareness?

PS: Get your SO some help if she has PP issues.

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If you're not on a higher level than her friends, then she's not all that committed or emotionally invested in you.

At 26yo she knows how this looks.

I suggest you prepare to be single.

This is entirely a you problem. They are not kissing. And if you are jealous of your boyfriends relationships with his family, you should be seeing a therapist to work through your insecurities.

Message him and tell him it’s not working for you, wait until he has read the message and then block him. Everywhere. He’s clearly making you feel uncomfortable.

Early stages of meeting up shouldn’t result in what seems like a fairly aggressive tone. It’s like he’s not respecting you at all.

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Every family is different. My family and I share food all the time and it's not a big deal.

Distance?

She’s not even little, she’s only 4 years younger. Like if she were a kid I’d be like okay that’s fine but because she’s not, it seems inappropriate to me, no?

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She's on the make. It sounds like she's jealous of how good your husband treats you and wants to interject herself into that senario and cause problems. It also sounds like she's frustrated that whatever she's tried so far isn't working.

If you feel it's like kissing your sibling and aren't comfortable with it then you're welcome to not share food with your siblings. But he obviously doesn't feel that way and that's totally fine too.

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Just tell him you weren't feeling it and move on. You guys aren't in a relationship.

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This isn't a negotiation. You don't need his permission to visit your parents and if he feels like he's not 'adult' enough to be left on his own for a weekend, he's got bigger problems to work on. No matter when you go, if he doesn't go HE WILL BE ALONE. He does not have a valid argument.

Him telling you he regrets marrying you? Looks like you might want to extend your time at your parent's place so you can take time to consider whether you want to stay with someone this purposefully hurtful and nasty.

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To someone she’s apparently not happy with

Really? I come from a family that shares food but I kinda stopped doing that as I got older because the idea of getting my brothers saliva all over my food kinda grossed me out a little. Is it not like kissing your sibling or ..?

That happens. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or that she used you. Learn from this and move on. Think about what you really want and be upfront about it with the next person. That's all any of us can do.

It's called having your cake and eating it too.

Go visit r/adultery and you'll see it everywhere.

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