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Reply to comment by momisacat in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
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MoraDK_ OP t1_jego34o wrote
Reply to comment by LongjumpingAgency245 in My friend is dating my ex, how do I stop thinking about it and what should I do? We've been dating for a year. M18 F18 by MoraDK_
Unfortunately, it's not possible. I've already blocked them on all social media platforms, but we're in the same study group and we have to see each other quite often.
kokopotate OP t1_jego33c wrote
Reply to comment by ratakat in I 24F want to leave guy 23M I met a week ago by kokopotate
I live in a different city so address shouldn't be a problem! And my sister is moving from where she was living when we visited her in a month so that should be fine as well. But I don't think I'll have to worry about that, he doesn't seem to be that kind of a person ๐ He's just a little too clingy for comfort, I believe.
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Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
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Total_Eagle_7359 t1_jegnx1k wrote
Reply to Withholding sex in a situationship/relationship - bad thing or not? F26 & M25 by MoonchildEm96
If u need to do this, then yeah heโs not the one for U
the-mirrors-truth t1_jegnwhq wrote
Reply to Withholding sex in a situationship/relationship - bad thing or not? F26 & M25 by MoonchildEm96
I think you need to establish what you both want out of this relationship. Sounds like he may only be interested in sex and thought that's what you wanted too so now he feels the rug has been pulled from under him.
But at no point due you owe him sex or your body.
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BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jegnsoj wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
If you find it creepy, you should not be dating him. But as you can see from this thread, no one else thinks that sharing food is inappropriate behavior, only you do.
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momisacat t1_jegnr0w wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
Do you frequently devalue yourself? Do you often think you aren't worthy?
tickleyourfanny t1_jegnp8t wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
Call me crazy but maybe you need a new circle of friends...you must work in a coke factory or perhaps a strip club? go ahead and try to get away from the coke, I assure you it is not hard at all to do...in fact most people dont do coke, every day/week. Most never do it at all...you may have a slightly skewed friend group..sure if all your friends are cokeheads/partiers then all you will see is that. the world is bigger than that my friend.
smellyrox t1_jegnorb wrote
Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
What of my views are messed up? That I think sharing food with your grown sister as a grown man is kinda weird and gross? Iโm curious about what you think.
peakpenguins t1_jegno64 wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
That you're jealous of his sister.
EvenOrchid6345 t1_jegnitk wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
No. Super no. It's worrying to me that you seem to be sexualizing a normal sibling relationship, and I more strongly suggest you speak to someone about your own childhood and sibling relationship. ๐ฌ
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Reply to comment by brownbaddie66 in bc 28M. cheated on me 21F by brownbaddie66
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smellyrox t1_jegnegp wrote
Reply to comment by peakpenguins in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
Know what?
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Billmatic- t1_jegncjk wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
no.
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Reply to comment by SevsMumma21217 in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
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BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jegnair wrote
Reply to Husband (35M) wants me(34M)to watch movies with him I am not interested in genre wise and he gets mad that I say no by [deleted]
Does your husband have a history of dismissing your opinions? Getting angry because you won't watch movies he wants you to is not normal.
My boyfriend is a huge horror fan, and I am not. He has never once gotten angry or upset with me for not watching a horror film with him, because that is crazy behavior.
If this is the only thing that he's being a jerk about, I highly suggest counseling. If this is an ongoing issue where he gets mad if you don't do what he wants you to do, you may want to consider divorce.
smellyrox t1_jegn75w wrote
Reply to comment by ratakat in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
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mffdiver420 t1_jego3zs wrote
Reply to comment by HHIOTF in How to tell my mom (54F) that I (21F) was SA'd by Apprehensive-Rest470
This , you said it all here , good luck !