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Reply to My 23M boyfriend will not agree with me 28F 6years by Independent-Peace704

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the-mirrors-truth t1_jegq95f wrote

Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]

Sexual jokes are weird depending on contacts.

But for most siblings they don't actually view their siblings in a sexual way regardless of what they're wearing so yes being paranoid about her clothes says more about your insecurities than it does about their relationship.

If it bothers you so much reconsider the relationship.

Normal siblings don't think anything of their siblings body or in the same sphere as a sexual partner.

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Herbrugglesbezos t1_jegq49x wrote

Reply to comment by throwraihatepeople in I 32m think I ruined things with 40f by not texting enough by [deleted]

I think if you're seeing someone for several months, a text every day or two, even something as small as 'thinking of you and hope you're having a great day' just shows that, you know, you're thinking of them because presumably, you do? Think of them? Like, once every day or two?

It's odd to me that you think one text every day or two is a lot and it sounds like you don't really want a relationship. Sounds like the only thing you 'ruined' is a super casual fuck, which you can find anywhere so why fret about losing this casual fuck?

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