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DameLizardville t1_jeh0qu3 wrote

Reply to My (40f) husband (45m) has found out my kids aren’t his by throwra44s

“My kids are all very materialistic which is a trait I don’t like in them.”

Except you and they are in this mess because of how materialistic you are.

You can’t “fix” this. But the least you can do is start thinking about your kids’ welfare first. This is one long tale of “woe is me” and I can’t see any compassion for your children whatsoever. Your husband will get over you, hopefully quickly, but your kids are going through hell right now. They’ve lost their Dad, their home, their school, their friends, and their security and safety. They’ve even lost who they thought was their Mom. And all you can do is complain about how it all affects you. It isn’t even about the cheating. Bad as that is, your complete self absorption and lack of regard for your children is horrendous.

Get a job and work out how you’re going to financially support all those kids until they’re all old enough to get far, far, away from you. The very least you have to do, is put a roof over their heads and feed them.

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Reply to My (18f) boyfriend (18m) says I ignore him when we go on vacations by ThrowRAHelpMe13

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Toroic t1_jeh087g wrote

Reply to Do you have any advice or tips on how to keep your sex life interesting after 20years of marriage? M44 F51 by Even_Ship_1304

Step 1 is definitely getting the 10 year old out of your bedroom.

As for the rest, not enough info to give you anything more than the generic advice.

Are you still making time for each other during the day, and setting aside date nights?

Are you doing a fair split of housework?

When was the last time you took a weekend away together?

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