Sounds like he playing games.

To a guy she isn't happy with

I think you should propose. She sounds like a real keeper

You've been together for a month so you aren't in a serious relationship and you definitely don't love her

In that time she has cheated on you and got pregnant, quite possibly with another man's baby

She wants to get an abortion. Let her. Leave her and go and find someone who respects you

Of course you are. You’re assuming one bad experience (for you) is universal

He says you ignore him when you two are on vacation and it just might be, Op.

However, when you ask him how/why/where/how he

*He didn't answer and kept deflecting with jokes, goofing around with me or playing a game on his phone*

You tried a few times to get details but he keeps blowing you off, correct, Op?

What the he11 are you supposed to do? You can't read his mind so~~

You are racking your brain, taking on an issue that you have no idea what it's about.

I'm thinking, he doesn't want to go on vacation with other people. And that's okay as long as he tells you this. You can decide on what YOU want to do about this.

But complaining about this and refusing to talk to you about it is goofy.

Him: I don't like to eat at the places you choose.

You: Where would you like to go out to eat?

Him:

You: Where would you like to go out to eat?

Him:

You: pulling your hair out trying to fix something you have no clue about.

You can't tell me you are upset about X when you refuse to tell me WHY you are upset about X.

It's goofy.

Fuckkkkk no lmao.

You stop him stealing from you by stopping being anywhere near him. His stealing is not “out of character”. This is his character and anything else he’s made you believe about him was merely acting in order to get access to his personal ATM, which is how he sees you and whoever he’s conned into being his “best friend”.

I hope you changed your lock after he stole your key. If not you need to do that.

I’m very sorry but there is no good future in this relationship. He’s a thief and a conman.

Ouch. He yells or uses a supercilious tone with you and then says YOU have to get used to it. No, honey, you don't. Walk out on him when he starts, and don't come back until you get an abject apology.

He's being a jerk, and don't you dare let him make you think you're the problem.

Yes.

They don’t have anything to transfer anyway so no real concern there tbh!

The people he is claiming he is with say he is not there. What more do you nee?. You having sex with him while you wait to prove it?

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Perhaps try to expand your movie universe and find genres you both like? There are lots of alternatives to the two you have mentioned.

So you hit the club at like 11:30pm. Who cares if he sees you?

I know, but I already did that multiple times. Still lies.

Or.. it's possible that it's not an UNDER assessment of worth and an OVER assessment of sexual prowess?

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Why don't you just confront him? He tells you he was at so-and-so's house. A person (B) tells you they saw him instead at club. So you say to him, "You told me you were at Joe's house but B saw you at Club 64" etc.

It seems safer and easier than sneaking around pretending to be a private investigator.

I see your point. I think I just need to see it myself on my own eyes.

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Maybe she's jealous cause her husband sucks?

I don’t understand. What makes you uncomfortable about her? Have you tried to get to know her at all?

"My kids are all very materialistic which is a trait I don’t like in them."

Gee, I wonder where they got it from. Could it be from the married woman who was in love with her long-term affair partner/baby daddy, but stayed with her husband and pretended all of the affair partner's kids were her husband's solely to keep living in luxury?

And we're supposed to feel bad for you because after all this you have to...Get an actual job? Fascinating to me how you don't show any remorse for your own actions yet feel so comfortable harshly judging your children. Who, unlike you, are the real victims of this whole mess you made.

This is so far above Reddit's paygrade. Therapy might help. But you sound just like a greedy, self-absorbed, all-around awful person and I don't think therapy can do anything to fix that.

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