Recent comments in /f/rva
DontTouchMyPeePee t1_j5jypsn wrote
Can't go wrong with any of these: Sea food pancake for the table.
Order of mandu
Short ribs
Ox bone soup
Ja jung myung
Soft tofu soup
Kimchi jigae
Braised pig trotters (Seriously)
Spicy Pork
Garlic Chicken Wings
Order bottle of soju and enjoy
WhataboutBarb t1_j5jxfyt wrote
Reply to Social anxiety therapists? by notevenclosebabie
At Discovery Counseling, there's Michelle Kempf who specializes in anxiety disorders. She uses Exposure Response Prevention (ERP) which can really help with anxiety triggers.
Tryharder3212 t1_j5jvh6t wrote
Reply to Social anxiety therapists? by notevenclosebabie
Check out thriveworks. They take my insurance and got me in touch with some therapists.
bkemp1984Part2 t1_j5jtnao wrote
Reply to comment by resident16 in RIP Postbellum by Littleprisonprism
>very cutting remark about my thinning hair
I'm glad it worked out in the end, but fuck. I dealt with every manner of shitty customer as a bartender and I guess it never occurred to me to be like "you know what would make this gross, contentious situation even better? A personal insult solely for the sake of hurting feelings."
Silly_Willy51 t1_j5jsz4z wrote
Reply to Social anxiety therapists? by notevenclosebabie
Check out Resilience Counseling and Social Skills Center
shhimhuntingrabbits t1_j5js94w wrote
Reply to Social anxiety therapists? by notevenclosebabie
Richmond Creative Counseling has some good providers overall, and they list each person's specialties.
https://www.richmondcreativecounseling.com/
They do get busy though.
Ann2040 t1_j5jrx9i wrote
Reply to comment by gravy_boot in MotionRVA/RehabRVA/Mainstage Trippie Redd concert refund by othertheseus
Exactly! There’s no coat checks at these places so I make a choice to go without one knowing that I’ll be cold for a few minutes in line. Did the same thing Saturday night for a show. That’s not that happened here at all.
gravy_boot t1_j5jrm14 wrote
Reply to comment by Dead_Hours in MotionRVA/RehabRVA/Mainstage Trippie Redd concert refund by othertheseus
Is it really devil’s advocate if you just straight up tell someone they’re wrong?
Hedgecore138 t1_j5jq72u wrote
Reply to RIP Postbellum by Littleprisonprism
The owners/managers were cited for sexual assault numerous times and were otherwise abusive to their staff. Good riddance, burn in hell, et cetera.
gravy_boot t1_j5jpwsj wrote
Reply to comment by fusion260 in MotionRVA/RehabRVA/Mainstage Trippie Redd concert refund by othertheseus
Jeez man… Feel like you’re being overly tough on them. We don’t know how underdressed she was or if they had umbrellas, but it’s 100% normal and expected for people to dress down when going to packed clubs that don’t have coat checks. Standing in a normal line for 15 min like any of us would expect at a show might have been fine, but it sounds like the club advertised an earlier show, or at least didn’t make it clear what time it was starting, then didn’t let people in til midnight. These are probably kids and honestly OPs post is pretty self aware, all things considered. They could have made better decisions, but this club fucked them over
fluufhead t1_j5joyzn wrote
Damn, hate to hear that. Sounds like a big L for everyone involved.
gravy_boot t1_j5jorbg wrote
Reply to comment by Professional_Mix_381 in 1600 Monument Ave. What the Heck is Going On? by skinnylynnie80
30 lashes!
Dead_Hours t1_j5joe0j wrote
Devil's advocate here, your girlfriend being underdressed is not the venues problem. They don't owe you anything. They let people in at midnight. Yall weren't dressed properly and couldn't take the wait in the cold.
fusion260 t1_j5jnqb7 wrote
So, the majority of your post is 💯 unfortunate and it sounds like a legit bad show and a sucky promoter.
That said, we really should address this part as a Teachable Moment™ for you and others:
> We walked in the heavy rain and cold (38-40 degrees) to this venue […] hypothermia is an understated and very real risk from this situation. My girlfriend happened to be underdressed and we stood in line for an hour (thinking we were late) until 11:20 when we couldn’t take the wait. Her lips were blue, and she was soaked. […] We waited for an hour in the rain and cold and didn’t even make it halfway.
My siblings in [deity or superfluous omnipotent object of your choice], that is completely on you two. Unless you’re under 15 and still living with parents/guardians and need a permission slip to stay out late at night, nobody else is going to dress you. It was cold and raining pretty much the entire day and this wasn’t a surprise little change in the weather.
It is fully your responsibility to check the weather/conditions before going out to make sure you have what you need to protect yourself from the elements.
Just because the venue and security people were moving the line along very slowly doesn’t mean they are responsible for your poor clothing decisions and lack of layers.
I’m glad this completely-preventable case of potential hypothermia didn’t result in an ER visit or worse and I hope it was a lesson learned on how to better prepare next time.
If anything, I guess be glad you bailed before making it in to see a fake show and be even angrier you had a really bad time to apparently see 3 lip-sync songs.
TakingYourDadsJob t1_j5jn1m1 wrote
Reply to Hollywood Cemetery. 10/31/22 by BoshJrolin
I’ve got family buried there, and I always find it so sad when I hear it’s been vandalized. Such a beautiful final resting place, I wouldn’t dream of defacing it, rather any cemetery.
Gamegis t1_j5jmq2w wrote
Reply to comment by NuttingOnNutzy in Forest Hill / Woodland Heights by Bumbalatti
I actually lived in Guam for 1 year…. I did not enjoy it. But it also could have been because I had lived in Richmond for my entire life up until moving 12,000 miles across the world. Humid as fuck there. I will say I don’t recall mosquitos being my biggest worry there. It was the damn large ass toads that littered our yard at night.
[deleted] t1_j5jkwgr wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in RIP Postbellum by Littleprisonprism
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dalhectar t1_j5jk8hc wrote
https://www.instagram.com/p/CnuuYxEpK_s/
Damn, $85 for 3 lip synced songs. At least now you know the promoter is full of shit and that knowledge will save you more money in the long run.
Someone commented they didn't even let people in until midnight.
chefmarksamson t1_j5jillu wrote
Reply to comment by Brrger in RIP Postbellum by Littleprisonprism
You’ll lose your staff before you get to your close date. Also, it’s common enough for closing restaurants to stiff their purveyors that as soon as they find out you’re closing, a lot of places will either put you on COD and demand immediate payment of anything you still have on balance (most of the time you’re on 30-day terms) before they’ll do tomorrow’s delivery, or they’ll just cut you off entirely.
Beginning-Plum8031 t1_j5jhipd wrote
Reply to comment by No-Selection-5764 in Cleanest Gym by Bsdshadow
I’m a big fan of their pool and sauna. The workout room is nice and open now, which makes it a lot more spacious compared to before. It’s a YMCA, so it’s not too fancy, but after having the same layout for the past 30 years, it’s nice to have mostly everything brand new.
lunar_unit t1_j5jgtfu wrote
I heard the show in Richmond was going to be a live feed of the one in Massachusetts, but IDK if that's true.
Edit:. Not true. He showed up in person eventually. Some of the commenters on that Insta link waited 5 hours in the cold rain!
If they sold tickets to a show where the main advertised performer wasn't going to be present, I'd say there's room for a class-action case against the club assuming people want to go through the effort.
WPMO t1_j5jgmer wrote
Reply to comment by ttd_76 in Joe Morrissey’s ex wife breaks silence and calls him a piece of shit on Instagram by jospence
Oh yeah, and look at all of the people who wanted to excuse Joe saying stuff like "well they got married! Love works in mysterious ways!".
WPMO t1_j5jge5s wrote
Reply to comment by ZalmoxisChrist in Joe Morrissey’s ex wife breaks silence and calls him a piece of shit on Instagram by jospence
Oh yeah he had a wife about his own age before, and kids. He cheated on them with Myrna, and now we see how that's gone.
AltruisticSquash9028 t1_j5jfaw0 wrote
Reply to comment by VirginiaTex in RIP Postbellum by Littleprisonprism
Only on the upstairs patio where it could get quite windy stemware had a tendency to blow over and break.
JVorhees t1_j5jytb7 wrote
Reply to Social anxiety therapists? by notevenclosebabie
While you're looking for a therapist, your GP can likely prescribe something that will help in the meantime (if you have a GP).