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Rs90 t1_j9ylto7 wrote

It's a psychological tangle of wires imo. A major appeal of gaming is control. You press the button and it responds to that command immediately. Makes monkey brain feel good in a world of little control.

But having total control also means you're responsible for any fuck ups like not parrying at the right time and dyin like ass. It causes an immediate self-reflection that causes some to be embarrassed, frustrated, angry, deflect...ect. And some respond to these emotions with anger.

Adults do it all the time in real life but they don't realize it's the same as "gamer rage". How many times have you seen a full grown adult do somethin stupid, embarrassing, or frustrating and lose their mind? Stub their toe and get angry at the wall despite THEM being the only thing in motion. Not the fuckin wall.

People get very angry when forced to reconcile they don't have as much control as they thought, have control and still fucked it up, or just plain made a mistake. Learning how to reflect on oneself can be difficult when you're young. But it's important to do so. Or you'll become that dude that freaks out anytime you make a tiny mistake or miscalculation. Or worse, deflect and project it onto others and become an insufferable narcissist.

Edit- sorry I love video games and psychology and have seen this shit in online gaming for decades lol. People snapping Wii remotes in half cause they fucked up jumped into spikes and blame Mario.

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Ms-Pamplemousse t1_j9ylgi7 wrote

Honestly it's not just "gamer rage," it could happen with tennis or other sports, too. I suggest finding ways to help focus the kid on having fun playing vs winning. This is something I struggled with as a kid and identifying some coping mechanisms back then could have helped me a lot with life in general.

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Ditovontease t1_j9yl5ue wrote

idk RIC is fine. My only gripe is that it doesnt have all the direct flights I want.

Its a small airport so its not a headache to get through security and get to your gate. There's also no traffic coming from or to the airport.

eta: mostly I fly out of DCA or IAD or BWI instead because of the lack of direct flights + RIC costs more to fly out of

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agnosticdeist t1_j9ykbfi wrote

We were told it’s going to be an insane one-shot and to make level 15 characters.

So of course I went with something I’ve never played with: Leonin Paladin of Glory (yes the “worst” oath, but it just fit the character I was making too well)

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xRVAx t1_j9yjslg wrote

I just think it's weird that the cheapest flights out of Richmond are to Boston.

Also for the longest time, there was no place to charge your phone near the baggage claim. I remember needing to get picked up and having my cell phone be totally dead.. so I had to sit on the floor over by the rental car areas so that I could charge my phone. It wasn't a charge zone for airport patrons.. it was like a place to plug in a vacuum cleaner or a floor polisher. it was very awkward.

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