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Depending on where upstate, we’ve taken 95 to Fredericksburg, then 17 to 81, to avoid DC.

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|Anyone wanna meet up at a bar or restaurant in the evening or have dinner at someone’s house?

If this is a horror movie, it's a HUMONGOUS red flag with rows of spot lights.

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This needs to be broadcast more.

I have had migraines since I was a kid and even though the really bad obvious screaming pain headaches are rare for me, I still deal with problems caused by high light contrast. It's bad enough when someone oncoming has their high beams on, but there's no need to be lighting up the interior of my car from behind like I stayed at the bar past closing time.

NYC?

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I want to make some kind of joke but to be honest my life is completely empty as well. I don't think I'm ready to meet anyone yet, but it's nice to hear that I am not alone in the world.

I have been seeing a therapist and I told her I feel like an alien a lot. Like I am just visiting people on earth and observing them. The world is so cold and unforgiving, and I don't really seem to be able to connect with people emotionally.

The holidays are the hardest I think, but you'll make it. I think about ending my life a lot, but it's more idle idealization than planning. I don't know if any of this means anything to anyone but you'll make it! If I am still here then you'll be fine!

I think today I am going to get an early bird biscuit and then head to the store so that I can make some cat shelters to put in my yard. I’m thinking some coolers from Walmart, cut a hole on the side, tape the lid, and a bed of straw. If anyone has any other ideas please share with me! It’s getting cold and I want the stray cats to have a cozy place to sleep

If you can- leave very early Thursday morning. Day before thanksgiving + 95 = fear.

risky puns today

We wait a couple hours then do a massive dessert and coffee and booze fest.

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I just told the wife we should do a Friendsgiving next year. We have never not done the big family Thanksgiving.

Great movie.

We have been spending Thanksgiving with friends so our after dinner rituals are much less stressful. In fact, everything is less stressful. Highly recommend.

> It’s already apparent that a lot of people can’t be bothered to think about more than what’s immediately in front of them when they’re behind the wheel.

Exactly my point. Drivers need to me more engaged, aware of themselves and their surroundings, and less reliant on automacy.

If you want to take the human out the equation, that’s fine. Take the bus then.

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We watch Trains, Plains and Automobiles every Thanksgiving after dinner. Our SIL is going to borrow an outdoor screen to watch it by the fire pit this year if weather cooperates. Definitely our Thanksgiving tradition.

Go to a bar and strike up a conversation with a stranger. As an anxious person this was hard at first, but if you really want to make friends or not be alone on thanksgiving this is your best bet.

You just missed Fetch a Cure’s Pets on Parade

I don't disagree with your point but I'd rather all new cars come with automatic headlights to take the human out of the equation.

It's already apparent that a lot of people can't be bothered to think about more than what's immediately in front of them when they're behind the wheel.

We are a tidy and efficient Thanksgiving family. We convene to eat a giant lunch with all the normal fixins and then we all go back to our respective homes and nap.

Disagree.

Drivers just need to be more engaged.