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RVADoberman t1_ixf57wx wrote
Reply to Going to be alone thanksgiving by Adept_Tangerine_4030
20 years ago I was at my lowest point. Newly divorced and suffering from chronic physical pain, I saw no way out.
It was very late on a Sunday night and I found the number for a local 24-hour suicide hotline in the RVA phone book. Not that I was about to do something, but I was alone and needed to hear someone tell me life was worth living.
I called the number and told the person who answered what was going on, and how I was struggling. After a pause he told me "Hey, I'm sitting in for the person who normally answers this line. I'm not sure what to say. Could you call back tomorrow morning after 9am?"
Ladies and gentlemen of RVA... that's when I decided that this world is too absurd NOT to keep going. I didn't call back on Monday, but instead worked on myself, got healthy, and am a happily married father of 2.
I hope you aren't alone on Thanksgiving, but if you are I hope you find a way make the best of it and realize this is just a stage in your life. A hard one, but you will get through it.
Professional_Book912 t1_ixf56cs wrote
The minute the interned him it was no longer a monument but a mausoleum. So different rules apply, also why it took so long to get him moved. They want to make sure they are doing it legally.
My guess is the water intrusion has made soup. Good luck syphoning him out Richmond. If we wait long enough he might be frozen. Civil War Pop.
LouieKablooie t1_ixf55km wrote
search-the-sub-first t1_ixf4zce wrote
Reply to comment by panopticon31 in Ideas for a onesie for a restaurant Thanksgiving meal? Will anything be open in the Fan? by ihaterollercoasters
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100835 t1_ixf4qi7 wrote
Reply to comment by allowatt in Recommendations for optometrists in or near The Fan? by availablewait
I second Grove Eye. I see Dr. Levy now cause I like him the most but I've been seen by all of them over 15 years. Really great, thorough exam then I get my contacts and glasses from 1-800-contacts and glasses from Zenni with the prescription from Grove Eye.
allowatt t1_ixf40e0 wrote
Check out Grove Eye Care, they’re really fantastic and close to the fan. Dr. Parsons is awesome.
Lue33 t1_ixf3eqq wrote
Reply to comment by Ditovontease in PSA: Please turn on your headlights at night by T-Rowe-Price
This was me back in 2009. Hampton Roads..
Unlikely-Order9918 t1_ixf2np9 wrote
Patterson Eye Clinic. Even after moving pretty far away I go there. Pretty quick and I have never had to wait.
dustinator t1_ixf1fi0 wrote
Reply to comment by DBallouV in Going to be alone thanksgiving by Adept_Tangerine_4030
You must not be from around here if youre just now realizing this sub is full of self righteous shitbirds
TheCheeseDevil t1_ixf1f4n wrote
Reply to comment by fusion260 in Effort seeks to stop Richmond’s plans for last Confederate statue by fusion260
That makes a lot of sense, you're right! The whole situation is a little bizarre to me.
Soloemilia t1_ixf14dv wrote
Reply to comment by toller_kate in Effort seeks to stop Richmond’s plans for last Confederate statue by fusion260
I always get paranoid I’m invisible on a daily basis going through that intersection.
toller_kate t1_ixf03zr wrote
I wish those 'distant relatives' had to drive thru that death trap daily like the rest of us do...it's absurd the city hasn't fixed this by now.
virginiamasterrace t1_ixezv7i wrote
And turn your damn brights off when 1. A car approaches in the opposite lane 2. You’re behind another car at night. And 3. Don’t tailgate on two lane roads. What are you trying to accomplish? You’re obviously not really in a hurry if you won’t even pass when your opportunity comes. Go around or get off my ass.
Impossible_Bill_2834 t1_ixeysdd wrote
I have always had a great experience at Target Willow Lawn with Dr. Gates. He has a "separate" office door to the left of the main entrance, he is not actually in the store. I had one not so great experience at Grove Eye Care, but that was three years ago and I never went back after that, maybe someone who is a long term patient there has a better perspective.
availablewait OP t1_ixeyr4x wrote
Reply to comment by Adventurous_Ad_3901 in Recommendations for optometrists in or near The Fan? by availablewait
thanks!!
ihaterollercoasters OP t1_ixexil9 wrote
Reply to comment by panopticon31 in Ideas for a onesie for a restaurant Thanksgiving meal? Will anything be open in the Fan? by ihaterollercoasters
They are!
panopticon31 t1_ixex8m7 wrote
Reply to comment by ihaterollercoasters in Ideas for a onesie for a restaurant Thanksgiving meal? Will anything be open in the Fan? by ihaterollercoasters
Nope they are a community hero
upearlyRVA t1_ixewd59 wrote
Reply to Where's the Tuesdaily? by TheCheeseDevil
Working on Friday so I'll be watching from home. I've heard Gus's is a good spot. You can take your chances at Penny Lane but I imagine you'll be outnumber by English fans there.
Lsufaninva t1_ixew9qg wrote
Reply to Going to be alone thanksgiving by Adept_Tangerine_4030
Lunch is at 2 I’m making dinner for all of my friends with 0 family or no place to go If you need a place hit me up
Beaniebot t1_ixew8wk wrote
Oh I forgot about the yearly calendar by Eliza Askin. Lovely drawings of local landmarks and buildings. Barnes&noble usually sells them.
Gothmom85 t1_ixew3kw wrote
https://ellicedarien.com/ Richmond based skincare that's fantastic. As a bonus, the owner is a great person.
For something a bit more spot on you could always do a RVA sticker or something cool from the science museum, vmfa, Poe museum is pretty unique.
The Nile sells their berbere spice blend. I know I'd be thrilled if that came in a basket of goodies.
Ukrops baked goods.
Unicorn_hi5s t1_ixevsp5 wrote
Reply to comment by tacomckinley in Client gifts from Richmond/VA: What are you favorite locally made goods? by Jolech
worst employer ive ever had, i will never buy a Sauers or Dukes or Spice Hunter product ever again.
Unicorn_hi5s t1_ixevivs wrote
Reply to comment by SnarkMatter in Client gifts from Richmond/VA: What are you favorite locally made goods? by Jolech
i have a few Strawberry Zeals that im including in christmas gifts this year! i agree to add some ‘dayum’ items in your appreciation gifts too!
ihaterollercoasters OP t1_ixevha3 wrote
Reply to comment by search-the-sub-first in Ideas for a onesie for a restaurant Thanksgiving meal? Will anything be open in the Fan? by ihaterollercoasters
I assume this is a bot but thanks!!
rcb4d t1_ixf5cuq wrote
Reply to Client gifts from Richmond/VA: What are you favorite locally made goods? by Jolech
Definitely skip the Reservoir. It’s overpriced and terrible.
Another local booze worth mentioning is Virago - they make an assortment of great rums, as well as cocktail kits.