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gletob OP t1_ixksfee wrote

Reply to comment by Asterion7 in RVA LGBTQ+ Mastodon Server by gletob

Hey! I missed an email from my SMTP provider and they revoked my account :( sent them the requested information verifying that I am infact human and pending them verifying me.

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gletob OP t1_ixksbg5 wrote

Reply to comment by pulledoutdad in RVA LGBTQ+ Mastodon Server by gletob

>I think the people running the servers have a lot of access and power, it's been mentioned as a possible issue

Yes Mastodon DM's are basically posts with viewers restricted to the sender and recipient. It is in their roadmap to add E2E encryption, but not there yet. More info here: https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2022/11/mastodon-private-and-secure-lets-take-look

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GroundbreakingBite96 t1_ixkmlzb wrote

Interesting, we have this in Charlottesville, and I noticed they also just opened up a Torchys Tacos in carytown, which was a newer addition to Charlottesville last year I believe. I feel like both of those places aren’t the best honestly, overpriced for sure but definitely a - try it once or twice’ a year type of place.

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opienandm t1_ixki3cd wrote

Your schools failed you. Insult and observation do not mean the same thing. Edit: And you should look up the definition of the word, “literally”. It literally doesn’t mean what you think it does.

I didn’t really expect you to read the linked article, but here’s a passage which almost seems as if it was based on your reactions:

“If you identify as white, acknowledging your white racial identity and its privileges is a crucial step to help end racism. Facing your whiteness is hard and can result in feelings of guilt, sadness, confusion, defensiveness, or fear. Dr. Robin DiAngelo coined the term white fragility to describe these feelings as "a state in which even a minimum amount of racial stress becomes intolerable, triggering a range of defensive moves." Since white people "live in a social environment that insulates them from race-based stress," whites are rarely challenged and have less of a tolerance to race-based stress.

The feelings associated with white fragility often derail conversations about race and serve to support white supremacy. While these feelings are natural human reactions, staying stuck in any of them hurts the process of creating a more equitable society. The defensiveness, guilt, or denial gets in the way of addressing the racism experienced by people of color.“

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