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Reply to comment by Just_Tana in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
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tenaciousfetus t1_j867vr7 wrote
Reply to comment by 0biwanCannoli in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Sounds like you need to leave, that doesn't sound healthy for either of you
Aporkalypse_Sow t1_j8677dh wrote
Reply to comment by Responsible-Laugh590 in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Sure. But you aren't supposed to live with the clients.
bandyplaysreallife t1_j866kca wrote
Reply to comment by Imaginary-Ad-9397 in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
The only 100% deal breakers are if both parties aren't committed to the relationship. Anything else can be worked through in theory, although basically everyone will draw the line at giving up major life goals or compromising core values.
bandyplaysreallife t1_j8666o2 wrote
Reply to comment by HelenAngel in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
And it's not always men with the higher libido too. Something a lot of people might not realize if they're used to the outdated ideas that men always want sex.
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bandyplaysreallife t1_j865t0g wrote
Reply to comment by AustinLurkerDude in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
The only way I'd spend big on a wedding or ring is if someone were gifting those things to me. Ain't no way in hell I'd pay thousands out of my own pocket for something that could be better spent building our lives together.
0biwanCannoli t1_j865i28 wrote
Reply to Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
I’m in a relationship with a truly traditional person who doesn’t want to work, needs to have 2 kids because her friends do, and expects me to provide everything, like a house. In this economy?!
My money is our money, but her money is her money.
There’s no sex. There’s no communication. Plenty of resentment.
bandyplaysreallife t1_j865cma wrote
Reply to comment by Aporkalypse_Sow in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
A life with no real challenges will do that to someone. Boredom gets filled with drugs, realistic goals get swapped with delusions. It really does the person no favors in the long run and it's a shame that people have enabled her for so long. People only get really out of touch like that when they can afford to be.
Mannyvoz t1_j8656bm wrote
Reply to Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
This (and other factors) contributed to my divorce. I re-married since then and it was a no brained when we really found weird how much stuff we had in common + Long term goals were 100% a match. Living my best life next to an amazing partner, the love of my life.
evanmike t1_j86479s wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Non-processed meat-based diet during puppyhood may protect dogs against certain digestive disorders later in life while kibble is a potential risk factors. by neline_the_lioness
Do you know how prevalent diabetes is in those people and dogs because of corn and wheat? Dogs and people sure didn't get diabetes until that change to their diet
bandyplaysreallife t1_j8643f2 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Moving to a new city and getting a new job in your field is a massive risk assuming it's possible at all.
In the future I'd suggest not giving this kind of advice in this situation, it offers zero valuable insight and comes off incredibly condescending for no good reason.
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Th1nk1ngTh1ng t1_j863dx9 wrote
Reply to comment by blay12 in To help solve the problem of too much guilt, a recent study found that placebos can reduce feelings of guilt, even when the person taking them knows they’re receiving placebos. by chrisdh79
True, but If it's not a double blind study then you can't eliminate the possibility that the respondents aren't reporting the information they think the researchers want to hear. It taints the evidence - biases the sample - especially in human trials.
I've read a number of these "we broke the blinds" placebo studies, and they always find that the people who know they are getting a placebo report extreme results. And, my conclusion is: "of course, they did! They knew that's what the researchers wanted to hear."
evanmike t1_j8637z5 wrote
Reply to comment by Shantor in Non-processed meat-based diet during puppyhood may protect dogs against certain digestive disorders later in life while kibble is a potential risk factors. by neline_the_lioness
That is why dogs have diabetes now. They do not get diabetes in the wild. Grain is not for dogs
Shantor t1_j862vfn wrote
Reply to comment by evanmike in Non-processed meat-based diet during puppyhood may protect dogs against certain digestive disorders later in life while kibble is a potential risk factors. by neline_the_lioness
Domestic dogs are omnivores. They have adapted to eat the same food that humans have over the years and their nutritional requirements are much different than their wild canine companions.
blay12 t1_j862qpf wrote
Reply to comment by Th1nk1ngTh1ng in To help solve the problem of too much guilt, a recent study found that placebos can reduce feelings of guilt, even when the person taking them knows they’re receiving placebos. by chrisdh79
But it never claimed to be a double blind study? Not all experiments are double blind…hell, not all experiments are even single blind.
StraightVoice3908 t1_j862mk9 wrote
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Reply to comment by Wassux in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
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Willinton06 t1_j8628ar wrote
Reply to comment by Halcyon_Rein in New find of Stone Age tools dated 300k years earlier than previously thought, 2.9 million years ago, along with butchered hippos and human-like ancestors by qartas
I disagree, our space tech is made out of human wonder, not just for quality of life
Responsible-Laugh590 t1_j860nry wrote
Reply to comment by Aporkalypse_Sow in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Hey prostitution is a valuable job and somebodies gotta do it!
Responsible-Laugh590 t1_j868n91 wrote
Reply to comment by Aporkalypse_Sow in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Ehhh it’s all the same at the end of the day