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ShamrockAPD t1_j8dgk38 wrote

It’s almost as if every one has their own experiences and feelings and ways of dealing with things.

Reading this thread there’s a ton on your side, and there’s a ton in the other side.

For me - the dog is going to hit me much harder than anything else. However, I’m still not sure how hard.

I’m 34, about to turn 35. When I was 23 I watched a good friend drown in very tough water while camping.

A year later, a close friend died in a car accident.

Fast forward 6 years. A friend who witnessed the drowning with us suffered severe PTSD from it. He took his own life.

Each one of these hurt insanely bad; left absolute miserable thoughts and tough times to me. But.. from them all I got used to being around death. A year after the suicide, my best friends wife succumbed to cancer. And… unlike the others…. It didn’t hit me nearly as hard. It was almost as if it was just a “here’s another one” (I felt very guilty for that).

My point is- everyone has their own connections and past that will affect how they handle grief.

My dog is my favorite part of my life; I have never loved anything more. I believe it’s going to hurt me more than anything else. But I also believe that with my other experiences, while hurting more, I’ll hopefully mentally handle myself better.

But I don’t know.. and I hopefully won’t know for a while still.

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Gurdus4 t1_j8dffmh wrote

Vaccine hesitancy is linked to a wave of truth spreading around the world waking people up to what a corrupt and broken establishment we have and public health system.

It's all tainted by political and financial and fear based motivations rather than science.

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Gurdus4 t1_j8df8nj wrote

I agree, that's why even if the truth about COVID is on the side of the mainstream sources, and the establishment and the majority of authority (although we don't know how many people are afraid to say they disagree with establishment for fears of repercussions), the fact is at the end of the day, censorship was wrong and useless.

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xElMerYx t1_j8df0od wrote

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schlubadubdub t1_j8de6dj wrote

Yeah, I was going to mention those. Quite often I'd buy a whole album for one or two good songs, but because I played the whole thing I grew to love other songs. But I haven't bought music in 20 years and can't remember the last time I played a whole album on Spotify. Sure I'd check out other songs by artists, but I quickly skip through stuff I don't like and never come back to it.

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MommysHadEnough t1_j8dadh5 wrote

There’s Alzheimer’s all over my mom’s family, and she has one copy of the gene for early onset, though she’s 77 and doesn’t have it. My daughter has Ds, and I have a mild form of dementia from MEcfs/Post Viral Syndrome, similar to (if not the same) what happens in Long COVID. I haven’t been tested yet for Alzheimer’s, but I’m sadly aware that my daughter will very likely begin to develop it around 30. The genes for Alzheimer’s are located on that chromosome that is duplicated in Ds.

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grumble11 t1_j8da5o7 wrote

Does this one correct for all the sick and old people not drinking (or quitting) due to illness? In many studies it is a tricky variable to adjust for, I wonder if others think this one was done well

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Lord_Darkmerge t1_j8d9tel wrote

At some point we all face death, even before its ourselves knocking on that door, someone we know will die. Too many people are filling their heads with wishful thinking and nonsense about death. Yes, its depressing to face reality sometimes, but it is absolutely necessary for our species and the planet to start grounding ourselves to the facts we know and discard the fantasies.

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