Recent comments in /f/springfieldMO

_ism_ t1_j2n4bhp wrote

I just tried new house chinese, on West Chestnut, last month. I got a shrimp lo mein and they gave me like 14 shrimp in it which I felt was very generous and I ate it for days

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Nice-Bet-7808 t1_j2n3n51 wrote

Iowa City all the way! Now that's probably my home state bias but every time I've been there to visit. It's been a blast! Iowa City has a legitimate college town feel to it with a great downtown area and a lot of good restaurant and entertainment choices. Iowa City seems cleaner and less methy to me than Springfield. From the outside, people genuinely seem to like living there and it just has a vibrance to it that I don't see in Springfield

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-lurkbeforeyouleap- t1_j2n2xdl wrote

Reply to comment by Cloud_Disconnected in two questions: by honeyliz03

Exactly. It’s not your responsibility to manage someone else’s emotions and actions behind the wheel. Keep driving the way you were. Anything else in trying to manage the situation. See my reply where what I said is the exact guidance offered by Progressive Insurance.

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NotATroll1234 t1_j2mqnow wrote

Reply to comment by -lurkbeforeyouleap- in two questions: by honeyliz03

No, it really won't. If I, the lead car, am driving slower, I have a greater reaction time for what's ahead of me. If they're already upset that I'm not doing 10+ over, then start riding my ass to the point that I decide to slow down, I don't care how much more upset they get. And if they rear-end me due to their own impatience, that's on them. No matter their reason, if they're traveling too close for my comfort, I'll start maliciously complying with the speed limit.

While living in another state for a few years, I was maintaining adequate distance on the interstate, until someone jumped in the gap and slammed on his brakes, causing me to hit him. I would've been able to stop, had the gap been there, but this 🤡 had other ideas. And I still was fined for "following too close", despite how it happened. So yeah, I'm cautious. And as it's already been mentioned, I also don't do this in the passing lane when there is one. You want to pass me? Pass me.

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Cloud_Disconnected t1_j2ltdty wrote

Reply to comment by -lurkbeforeyouleap- in two questions: by honeyliz03

That's not my experience. Nine out of ten times they back off or pass, as appropriate. I don't jam my brakes on, I'm not brake checking them, I just ease off on the accelerator.

If they're in my lane because they need to turn, then they turn and the problem resolves itself.

My slowing down to a still-within-reason speed of 35 in a 40 is not the issue causing accidents. People following too closely and driving 55 in a 40, or 40 in school zone is the safety issue here. It's not my responsibility to manage someone else's emotions and actions behind the wheel.

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