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Stat_Sock t1_jafm63r wrote
Reply to What are some great restaurants/bars around here that are open til midnight or later? by AMuricanof1776
Your best bet is downtown or c street, most of the bars if they have food, will have kitchens open till like 10-11, and last call is usually around 1:30am. I second Mud Lounge in terms of cozy vibes and good drinks, just not a lot of food just like charcuterie stuff
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dannyjbixby t1_jafkctk wrote
Reply to comment by SubstantialGrass1158 in Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
I also had to do a behavioral euthanasia for one of my dogs several years ago. It was so hard, but am completely convinced it was the right choice. And my vet also encouraged the decision. Not everything is fixable. Sometimes the hard and painful decision is the right one.
SubstantialGrass1158 t1_jafjnr0 wrote
Reply to comment by krikkitykrik in Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
It was the absolute worst decision I’ve ever had to make. I still cry myself to sleep over it but I don’t regret it. She was a good dog too, just had some demons no one could help her with but now she is free from them.
I wish you both the best and that you can find somewhere for him 💜
krikkitykrik OP t1_jafh8l9 wrote
Reply to comment by SubstantialGrass1158 in Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
I started crying when I read this. He's a good dog, I couldn't take him with me after I moved out because the only apartment that would work with my credit doesn't allow excessive noise, and he barks a lot when I'm away from home. Whenever I adopted him I was working from home, and then after that when I lived with other people he pretty much always had someone around. He knows how to get out of a crate and has terrible separation anxiety, he'll chew everything in sight. He's only aggressive towards strangers, or when children act erratically around him. Which I know doesn't really help his case. I just wish I could find someone who was home a lot and didn't have children. But even then, he can't be trusted to be around other dogs or the general public. So it would have to be someone that lived somewhere remote. All the local shelters are closed for tonight. I'm just really holding onto hoping that I can find someplace that can work with him.
SubstantialGrass1158 t1_jafe2hv wrote
Honestly this dog may not be adoptable. I had to do a behavioral euthanasia for one of my dogs about 3 years ago. She was beautifully trained in obedience and had multiple titles in.
It started out with aggression towards strangers. I took her to a trainer who used an e-collar in training and she was fine for about a year after that training program until she started showing aggression towards her family members. I later learned that the trainer just suppressed her aggression vs ‘fixing’ it.
About 90% of the time she was a normal, non aggressive dog. But you could see the switch in her eyes and she’d go from enjoying getting a pet to trying to take your hand off. There was no rhyme or reason to it. The last straw was when my son got off the couch to go to the bathroom and she came out of another room and attacked him completely unprovoked.
We tried medications, other trainers, etc but in the end she was not a safe dog. It was not a training issue but something off with her brain chemistry. It killed me to do it but it was not safe for my family and it felt unethical to rehome her and endanger someone else. Her vet team also agreed with my decision.
polski_zubr t1_jafds2d wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
Hey, fuck you buddy
krikkitykrik OP t1_jafda7k wrote
Reply to comment by Taste_Test69 in Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
He is a Carolina dog
Taste_Test69 t1_jafcluc wrote
What kind of dog is it?
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Frequent_Button_1370 t1_jaf51au wrote
Reply to Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
Telcomm is great CU Southern bank is a good bank
daveydave1987 OP t1_jaf4wal wrote
Reply to comment by EcoAffinity in Changing High School Docs After Legal Name Change by daveydave1987
I agree!
hairyTalbot t1_jaf4oav wrote
Reply to Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
I’ve used UMB for 23 years and never had issue
nbmft13 t1_jaf4ni9 wrote
Reply to comment by giftedgaia in Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
Another vote for Commerce. I've used them since I moved here in 2012 without any issues. I recently had to deal with a fraudulent use of my card. Their customer service was excellent and I got my new card printed at the bank the next day.
PM_YOUR_PUPPERS t1_jaf4m3z wrote
Reply to Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
I have an account with Arvest and I have an account with SoFi .
Arvest gave me really good interest rates on my loans so I keep an account with them to maintain that, But I have honestly enjoyed SoFi banking more as the app has more tools to manage things.
I guess it depends on what your looking for.
EcoAffinity t1_jaf47nu wrote
Reply to comment by daveydave1987 in Changing High School Docs After Legal Name Change by daveydave1987
Seems like a genuine learning opportunity for both sides and a good resolution to the issue. I'm glad they dug further to correct their misinformation and apologized!
PM_YOUR_PUPPERS t1_jaf44ue wrote
Reply to comment by duckthebuck in Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
Arvest does as well.
daveydave1987 OP t1_jaf3nop wrote
Reply to comment by EcoAffinity in Changing High School Docs After Legal Name Change by daveydave1987
I called them a second time to remind them of FERPA and how I have a right to change these documents if my new identity documents do not reflect the old information. They tried to tell me it was not legal for them change this information, so I asked for who could change it. They said “no one”. I then pressed and asked what state or federal law made it not legal. The person said “I don’t know”, and I said if they didn’t know how can they really be sure that it’s not possible.
After they hung up, thirty minutes later I got an apology back from that same person and they said that they did some digging and apparently it was possible and I just needed to bring my documents to the Nixa schools registrar. I also apologized, cause I got heated with them earlier, but it seems like they just didn’t know and just assumed it wasn’t possible. I will be doing this tomorrow, thank goodness.
FedexJames t1_jaf3acj wrote
Reply to comment by Fizzeek in Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
Telcomm has a rewards program now for both credit and debit cards
EcoAffinity t1_jaf2l1n wrote
Reply to comment by daveydave1987 in Changing High School Docs After Legal Name Change by daveydave1987
What made them finally be reasonable, if you want to share?
It_Could_Be_True t1_jaf2d5d wrote
Reply to Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
Oakstar Bank. Excellent service, very helpful.
pizza1sgr8 t1_jaf0scw wrote
Reply to comment by daveydave1987 in Changing High School Docs After Legal Name Change by daveydave1987
Congratulations! 🎊
GBBorkington t1_jaf03zr wrote
Reply to Looking for new banks by hikingjoey123
State Bank of Southwest Missouri. They are great to work with and print same day cards.
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Reply to Where to bring a dog who has shown signs of aggression by krikkitykrik
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