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AcrobaticSource3 t1_ixr5ny9 wrote

> Eithe she got fired, or insufficient creeped her out enough to quit

You’re jumping to conclusions. You didn’t say out loud that you and she smoked while she was on shift before. (And if the owners yelled at her for smoking on her free time, then fuck them) And based on your story, it doesn’t seem like she was creeped out and not enough to throw her job away to get away from you. More likely you misinterpreted cues and she’s not really into you and wasn’t flirting seriously and just left for a new job and didn’t care to let you know. Or maybe she got COVID.

Also, it’s Thanksgiving, maybe she went on vacation or to visit her family or friends or boyfriend. You should ask the new cashier if he or she is the new regular, and where the person before them went

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knife_in_yer_guts OP t1_ixrpowp wrote

Thanks for the perspective and advice!

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_ixuv8w7 wrote

Good luck, man! I hope she comes back in a week or two and you two can hit it off

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knife_in_yer_guts OP t1_iy6yz6z wrote

Hey man!

I took your advice and went back in and talked to the new cashier. Apparently, she either moved onto a new better gig (which she had mentioned she had lined up), or got fired for drinking on the job (maybe, but unlikely).

Still kind of sad we're unlikely to see each other again. But also glad it doesn't seem like I was the reason she left/got fired. It seems you were right about me jumping to conclusions. I think you're pretty spot on about her not being into me (or at least, as into me) as I was her.

Thought you deserved to know since you're the only one I got advice from haha.

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_iy8hssz wrote

That’s too bad, but I appreciate the update. Take care and good luck

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