Submitted by throwawayyy1132 t3_zgcajj in tifu
Two days ago my girlfriend and I were cuddling and she was scrolling through my phone. She was going through old snapchat memories, which I didn’t mind as Snapchat isn’t an app I use and I have no clue what’s on there if I’m being honest. Next thing you know, there is a thumbnail of a NSFW video from a few months ago on there. I tell her I’m sorry, I deleted everything off every single app but I don’t use snapchat and forgot to do it there. She acts cool on the spot, but becomes very distant the following day. Today, she tells me that all she can think of when she sees my face is me and my ex together, and she’s disgusted by me.
I’m at a loss on what to do. I feel horrible for what happened and want to make it right, but I’m not sure what else I can do except apologize and delete the videos (which I already did btw). She has BPD and struggles a lot with overthinking, anxiety and other issues, and I’m worried we might not recover from this.
TL;DR : My gf found NSFW video on snapchat memories I forgot to delete of me and my ex, finds me disgusting now.
UPDATE: We’re good now, thank you everyone!