Submitted by throwaway4829dndiw92 t3_zumf35 in tifu
throwaway just in case
Okay so I (32M) and my wife (25F) have been trying for a kid for two years. 5 years ago though, at the start of our relationship she got pregnant. I was ecstatic as I always wanted to be a dad but she hated it. She told me she never wanted this and that she was getting an abortion. I begged her not to but she did it anyways
We didn't talk for a year and went our separate ways as I hated the thought of her at that point. At the time I felt she was wrong for her decision and didn't give me a say or let me have any input which soured our relationship.
We reconnected 3 years ago and she ultimately changed her mind about kids. We got along better and we seemed reconnected.
My wife has had fertility issues and so far, we haven't had any luck with having a kid. Finally after we found out for the 3rd time she had yet another miscarriage and she was sitting on the toilet bawling. I felt disgusted. In the moment i said some things I shouldn't have said basically that she shouldn't have aborted our first child. She stormed out, took her car and left I haven't been able to reach her. I called her sister looking for her and she just told me that I was a piece of shit person and to never contact them again and divorce papers would be served.
I'm freaking out cause I love my wife I just don't think what I said was worth this reaction am I really wrong? I know I fucked up and i apologized i just want my wife back
tl,dr- told wife she shouldn't have aborted our first kid, now might be getting a divorce