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za419 t1_j1b47ov wrote

Your trust in her, perhaps. You should trust her anyway though - She's your daughter, you probably know her better than anyone and frankly if she's already untrustworthy by the time she's on the internet then you've either majorly screwed her up or you're being awfully bad about not letting her use a computer.

The more important trust, that you need to establish with her during the adolescent years where she's figuring out how the world works and where she fits in it, is her trust in you. That's not something that exists just because of DNA, contrary to many subpar parents expectations - It exists because you show her that she can trust you.

And again - trust is a two way street. The first step to her trusting you is you trusting her.

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AndrewNB411 t1_j1ar7rz wrote

Take your time and do an an activity that tends to lead to clear thinking for you. Drawing. Yoga. Running. Etc.

It really isn’t a big deal if you do have feelings for her. It’s something that happens between friends at times in life. The important thing is you don’t let it corrupt the relationship you have cultivated thus far. Clear communication is the best way to prevent this.

It’s very difficult to tell from a one sided perspective of a single moment, but I would guess that she has some level of feelings for you too. Talk it out and don’t rush things.

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gathermewool t1_j1aqw2v wrote

My son asks questions about EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME. He caught a glimpse of something similar and has never brought it up since. My wife even made a comment a while later that wouldn’t be TOO leading and he didn’t pick up on it. I honestly think he just saw nakedness and nothing else.

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