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throwaway995003 OP t1_j1dgkp9 wrote

That is such a good question. I have issues. Would love someone to want me. But that kinda mindset gets you these guys. Never had a good relationship. Don't even know what that looks like. Guess I'm taking what I can get. Or subconsciously think I deserve.

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XOIIO t1_j1dgd1i wrote

>automatic headlights

Please check if your tail lights actually come on at night, I see so many people in newer cars that drive around with no taillights and are absolutely clueless to external stimulus to try and tell them they aren't on.

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BloodSpades t1_j1dfcvn wrote

Yeah, you fucked up, but honestly it sounds like your aunt dodged a bullet by ditching his predatory ass if he was so quick to jump in bed with a barely legal kid. Also, your family SUCKS if they’re getting mad at you and not the asshole that should have been old enough to know better and make wiser decisions. Disgusting behavior on their part honestly….

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DcikHurtzer t1_j1deq6b wrote

Pretty much. It’s complex. You will learn as you go. Sometimes it’s unspoken agreement. Kinda like her showing that tattoo. That was a slight invitation allowing more at a slow pace. Again it’s difficult but you will figure it out as you experience more with others. It would be worth it to talk to her but be soft with the conversation as to not make her feel cornered. She seems Into you. Don’t be scared but be cautious and caring.

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Omnizoom t1_j1de19i wrote

Did you try to have sex with him? Force yourself on him? Do any crappy behaviour? No

You took care of a drunk friend , and you ended up cuddling together , if you both are very adamantly against being touchy with people and this is someone you both don’t feel that barrier with maybe you should put some consideration into that when going to talk about it over lunch

Overall I’d say your fine , maybe you both subconsciously have feelings for each other but are both too oblivious or unable to understand those feelings

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