You didn't FU. BF's family FUed by not making you feel welcome.

This was the first time you were at the family and they treated you like this?

Ignore the negative comments in this thread.

The basics of hospitality are that if a stranger comes into your home you offer them food. You make sure they aren't thirsty or hungry. You don't set out to make them uncomfortable by asking leading political questions just to get a raise or a reaction.

Why didn't the father offer you something to eat? Why didn't your BF check if you needed anything. You are a guest. If you're the first time there, it's not up to you to start making demands. It's up to them to offer.

IF this family don't know that then you don't want to spend more time with them. Make this clear to your BF and if he can't see it then you're better off without him.

10% of the world sexually active population has HSV2. I can imagine it's not pleasant, but it's nothing really serious.

How do you know you have HPV? It's believed that over 90% of sexually active males have it, so once again not that big of a deal.

I think the main issues you have is the shame of what you did l, as well as the guilt of it. Cheating that is.

The real fuckup was cheating, not getting those STDs.

(Also 400USD/h is not at all cheap, and it sounds very suspicious that you contracted all that within few seconds of unprotected sex. There might be more to the story)

Just because you’re okay with how your family acts like that does not mean it’s okay for his family to treat her like that.

You jingled his bells on Christmas.

Sounds like you’re the common denominator. Your family doesn’t want anything to do with you on the holidays and you probably ooze smugness around your bfs family that you’re an easy target. Eat some food and grow up.

Dude no, I would never even think about saying that she is overreacting and you should not ever say that to anyone who has gone through something like she did. What I did was wrong and acknowledging that is incredibly important.

Ahaha, you're funny. My family is fucked up because we all get along even though we have different politics and none of us attack each other for the way we vote? Dude, that's some funny shit.

Later on, we'll perspire, while Grandpa pees in the fire.

It's gonna stink, cause Grandpa's a dink,

Peeing in the fireplace again!

Pretty sure the chestnuts here are boiled and not roasted

So, what was your uncle's gift after all? Did he get one or what happened to it? Was it just the card and candy?

The Dad did that so you WON’T come back for Christmas again.

Wow, sounds like your family is as effed up as his. She had every right to leave and glad that she did. Dump his ass and find someone better.

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Haha, if I had a child react that way to my accidentally throwing away some cash, I'd tell them that I'd waive next month's rent to make up for it. Their mother isn't an employee and she doesn't owe anyone anything. This is really just a mistake made by both parties that put a damper on Christmas. It'll likely be forgotten in a week's time.

What the actual f Why would u ever do this

And I hate it when people moan about the least important thing in the entire post, so I guess we all have to put up with things we don’t like.

Silly man with his balls all a-glow,

Bringing Reddit ho-ho-hos

Absolutely, but as she didn't say exactly what these comments were it may well be a misunderstanding or overly sensitive response. OP seems to be on edge as it is, but is an unreliable narrator of the situation. Not much we can judge objectively here.

Nah it isn't a sensitive topic, your take is just bad.

There are fuck all expectations on men, just respecting consent and washing your body puts you above a large part of men looking to date. This guy cheated and tries to convince others it was for a selfless reason, this is not an issue of expectations.

In todays stories that didn’t happen.

What happened in this story could be in a textbook on alcoholism.

I'm not saying you're drinking most days. I'm saying if you show up to an apartment where there's alcohol and end up drunk despite being the only one, then yes you have a problem with alcohol. Just quit drinking, look what it has cost you

The 4 STDs was it for me. I think this really happened, but OP is in a dark spot due to overwhelming shame and is adjusting his story a bit. Happens a lot with this stuff. Shame is a very ugly emotion.

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"can I touch your chest" / "is it okay if I touch your chest" works fine and won't ruin anything. Or you just ask early on "let me know what's too much" and if nothing is too much she'll tell you something to that effect.

Honestly it is too easy for guys to not realize how scary it can be for a woman to say no or stop. Make it easier

Naa your aunt's being too nice, you deserve the worst that comes your way. I'm glad the rest of your family doesn't want you around, your aunt is a saint