The best are the ones who are trainable. That way you can learn together. You have to break the wild horse before you put a saddle on it.

Just a normal day in Amsterdam

Who said there's defending in his actions? Hell no. Communicating is a thing and there's tons of other solutions they could have solved this. Ending up cheating is delusional and we should be worried from where these men are finding these expectations that doesn't exist.

I'm not familiar with that umm...hentai plot level trash logic and I don't want to, thank you. I quess it makes more sense to consume cartooned porn rather than real porn made in oppressive misogynistic environment but I don't have enough experience to truly say anything.

Sorry that Christmas sucked for you, that all sounds like no fun.

Me and my wife were going to host on Christmas Eve, for my BIL and his fiance, and my FIL. which is fine, since we're centrally located between the two of them. My wife also really enjoys hosting.

We were going to have a Christmas brunch, which we had invited my FIL too (my MIL passed away a few years back and we don't like him being alone in the holidays). We were then going to go to my grandfather's house for afternoon drinks with my mom and stepfather.

We then were going to go to my dad's house for dinner with him and my stepmom.

We got COVID last week, so we did none of those... maybe that's something you could use in the future to have a quiet Christmas.. although it doesn't sound like some of his family would believe that's a real thing, by your explanation of them

This is amazing

Looks like OP created an account to rehash the same story from boss’ perspective

to be fair - most people aren't going to think, on Christmas Day, that you hadn't bothered to eat for 2 days previously.

this wasn't a case of dinner taking a long time to serve, this was somebody who skipped food for 2 days.

Idk if this is a joke but the coworker at the other end of the trigger made same post just from his pov

We get solid black ice on the roads here. 45 is too fast. You'll have a problem braking and even steering. Go slow!

Lol this is a satirical post in response to a previous thread from an opposing perspective

There are a couple of ways you can move forward from this. One is to be taking medications to reduce the likelihood that you could spread it to a partner, be honest and upfront about your status, and let them make the decision of whether the risk is worth it to them. You also could look into dating other people who already have HPV and HSV (I hope you had the others treated).

Both of those viruses are far more common than people think, as many people either never have any symptoms or eventually expel it from their system.

Be honest about your sexual inexperience with a potential partner too. The right person will be patient and willing to teach or learn with you.

There are a lot of people who are in your shoes, whether their first time was consensual or not. It is not a death sentence for your romantic prospects unless you make it so.

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You are using sarcasm, but the words are true. That is some hentai plot level trash logic. You need to be a douche to think cheating on your partner is somehow for their own well-being.

There is a bit of embarrassment that you can feel if you are unexperienced, yeah, but there are no expectations. Even then, if you were worried about some type of ed you would buy a blue pill not cheat on your partner. I am sorry but there is no excusing anything op said, and him not getting away with it is no reason to justify his selfish and moronic logic.

Definitely awful that he has an illness from it, no one deserves life long punishment for being a douche while young and stupid, but there is no defending his behavior. It was not anyone's expectations that pushed him this way, only himself.

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Ah bro I'm so sorry

Man with a fadora hat on his profile is creep. I for one am shocked!!!

Grow up.

wtf? Dude, you've got issues. Asking her questions isn't baiting her. And my family doesn't fight over politics. We're not delusional idiots who think Nancy Pelosi and Donald Trump are our saviors lol. We're normal people who recognize that we need a government. We disagree on what form that government should take, but we do agree that its current form isn't good. I'm sorry that your family is too dysfunctional, and maybe just too dumb, to discuss politics without getting angry over nothing.

telling people cliché things when they are in a depressed state is the last thing they want to hear

tbh the rest of your response was deam near perfect, u just fucked it up at the end

no at this point he is definitely getting downvotes for no reason

even when he says something pretty reasonable, normal and sociable, like several times in this very thread, he still gets targeted with downvotes.

i didnt stalk his profile like you so I cant say about his other posts, but in this thread, there is definitely some downvote bullying happening

Yup. Had totally made the expectations up from his head. A non-existing thing.

God you’re such a bitch

I was wondering if this would become a spinoff post and I'm not at all surprised that here we are.

This is really the only thing OP needs to see.

Informed affirmative consent, and there’s no reason it can’t be sexy or dirty talk.

“I want to make out with you” is way more sexy than going in for a kiss and getting rebuffed because you misread the cues