You have serious psychological issues

Not even friendzoned, dude tried to rape her. "Oh sorry I touched you repeatedly without your consent, I assumed there was chemistry". What the fuck kind of reasoning is that?

21 is an adult and attempted rape isn't "a good person who fucked up". A good person who fucked up is getting too drunk and throwing up, not trying to forcibly assault someone else. At 21 you should know not to touch someone without consent.

>will in due time prepare a formal and in-depth apology where I plan to detail what exactly I am sorry for

Maybe actually leave her the fuck alone. Victims of sexual assault don't like to hear from the people who assault them. You'd only be apologizing to make yourself feel better. There's a reason why she doesn't want to hear your apology and that's because she doesn't want to have to make you feel better for being a predator. Leave her ALONE

A friend had a similar feeling traveling to my wedding 16 years ago. She went anyway, since, you know, her friend was getting married.

On the way, she hit a deer (during the day, in the middle of July, so, not when people typically hit deer). Totaled her car.

I’m just SO glad she was okay!

I’m SO glad you are okay too!

>I did not rape her and I was not attempting to rape her.

No, you DID attempt to rape her when you stuck your hands between her legs. Just because you weren't violating her with your penis doesn't mean it wasn't attempted rape. You were trying to touch her vagina and/or penetrate her. The line between sexual assault and full blown rape is pretty thin and just because you didn't continue to cross that line doesn't mean that isn't what you intended. You're a fucking disgusting person and shouldn't be alone with a woman ever.

Why the fuck would you put the drink in the bag?

You're absolutely right. Being a virgin doesn't usually rise the self-confidence which is highly appreciated in dating, it's not the... being a non-virgin. Obviously people who fall in love doesn't care whether the opposite is virgin or not, but I'd say many men carry it like burden after certain age and that doesn't increase self-confidence which is, again, essential and is seen very attractive. A virgin can be a very self-confident too, obviously but isn't that easy I would imagine.

Ohhh got me their! (Yes, there.... I know.)

It was the “I was able to find out the exact number of former clients of this prostitute” for me.

I am sorry for you. But I have to say, reading this gave me a good laugh! I tend to goof around in that kind of situation as well, so that could have happened to me for sure. Get well soon stranger.

Likely a piece of fiction.

I want to see a skit of this incident

It's OK. I'm sure it wasn't a ton of money to fuss over the drawing was sentimental, but I'm sure you would have gotten over it within a few days... I remember when I was 16/17, my mom donated an old toy I was using to stash my money in... if you semi took it apart, you could access most of the internals, which I stripped and used to use as a safe... after saving around $8k and me leaving for a week during summer to do a job, I came home only to find out she had donated the toy to a charity after cleaning my room (i was moving out anyway so she decided to "declutter" while i was gone).... I've never seen it again, and she still has trouble speaking when I bring up the incident....

BTW it was a firemen toy and everytime I see the firetrucks/firestation I always recollect on this... 6 years later, and me and her still only talk about once every 2 years.... just remember OP it could be worse :)

He added a zero to the price, and dropped one off the incubation period.

My younger sister used to babysit a little boy. Kid followed me around constantly, asking me questions. Because my summer job had me working nights, this was not fun for me.

One day, he asks if our parents ever spanked us, and I said no. "Well, how did they punish you when you were bad?"

So, I pointed to the corner of the patio, brick walls on two sides, and a pile of spare bricks. I told him that, when we were bad, Mom made us stand in the corner, and she would throw chunks of brick at us. We were allowed to dodge, but if we got hit, that was our punishment.

He scoffed at this. Well, my sister has a scar between her eyes, from chicken pox. I said "Ryan, you know that scar sister has? Brick. She was too slow one day".

Well, he was playing with one of Mom's emery board nail files, and when I told him that, his eyes got big and he broke the file in half. I was like, Oh, dear, that's a brick waiting to happen.

Afew minutes later, I go inside to talk to my Mom, and ryan comes running in "Please, Mrs Squig, please don't make me stand in a corner and throw bricks at me! I'm sorry!".

In the end, he told his parents the story, and they started having my sister care for him at their own home.

The issue people have with dating virgins isn’t the lack of sexual experience, it’s the general lack of dating experience. Men without dating experience basing their idea of dating on porn and online forums with other dateless men. Then they end up doing things like cheating on their girlfriends with hookers because they’ve idealized sex. What woman wants to be treated like that? That’s not a virgin issue, that’s a mentality issue.

Men find these made up expectations from other men who don't know what they are talking about. Being self concious about your sexual performance is natural and ok, but those expectations aren't coming from us, and that line of thought from op is nothing but coping for selfish behavior.

If I had an inexperienced guy, as long as he was around my age and not too young or much older, it would be unlikely to bother me unless he made it an issue by drawing attention to it. From my perspective that is not a problem, if anything it is exciting to get a chance to blow someone's mind. I don't expect to get off the first time I am with a new partner anyway, that takes patience and being a lot more comfortable.

Lies. You read lies.

[deleted]

[removed]

If she cheats, she belongs to the streets, bro. You can't make people change. Sounds like she's using you as her ol' reliable who will always be there for her. Don't enable her behavior, as hard as it may be, you should let her go. It's unfortunate that there are kids involved, but in the long run it'll likely be a healthier environment for them when they are with you if you don't have this kind of emotional turmoil and distraction.

4 days later. Considering herpes takes a lot longer than that to show up that's what did it for me

rape much?

there are way better ways to ask than you said here. some other posters have mentioned some good options above and below.

Can't feel bad for the dude who cheated on his SO. Karma is a bitch lol