Recent comments in /f/tifu

reevelainen t1_j1qpn9a wrote

Don't know what one did but decided to comment anyway. Yes, my profile is public and I stand behind everything there is. This is the only account I have and the one doing the digging had like 4 comments in total which implies one's doing a new one everytime. One weaponized the detail in my profile and prevents anyone doing the same to one because one makes a new one everytime. That's why it was ridiculous. The details are there, everyone can see they've got nothing to do with these dialogues. One chose a bad indicator.

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Internal-Car8922 OP t1_j1qouvf wrote

Thank you for the laughs!

I am seriously a certified creature of the dark, and one of the pills makes me belch oddly obnoxious noises, but it's closer to Rick (from Rick and Morty) then Gollum.

Just to add to the fun, my birthday is right before Christmas, and the first signs of the gout started that day, so... What have you got in your pockets?

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Huge_Jellyfish2855 t1_j1qootu wrote

You are young, you did a huge mistake (but you stopped), and you have probably lost a friend.

Now…I’m sorry but you’ll have to deal with it. It’s okay. I just hope it will teach you to not try this again.

The good thing is that you seem to regret it, so it means that you somewhat understand the issue.

You have no idea how many did that kind of mistakes. Just learn from it and be better.

I advise you to leave her alone, unless she wants to talk with you, and talk to someone (psychologist for example).

You do not deserve to die for this.

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gridlock747 t1_j1qkv0j wrote

Well first of all, I would like to applaud you for taking responsibility for your actions. As far as how you are going to live with yourself, you just need to put your big boy pants on and do it. You spoke to her after the fact and she essentially told you to get lost. So do it. And stop drinking. Clearly you can't handle your booze. The problem with alcohol is it magnifies personality traits that are already there. If you can't trust yourself to seek out consent when drunk then stay sober.

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HotSupermarket3682 t1_j1qkk1e wrote

What strikes me is the sad viewpoint that the sexual innocence of your body is viewed negatively … to give your virginity to someone you love really should, in my traditional viewpoint, be treasured.

How much less messy would all of our lives be if we didn’t come with the emotional baggage of sexual intimacy with others before our longterm (hopefully life long) partner.

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moja_ofinka t1_j1qkf5f wrote

I don’t think it’s too late! Now is your chance to open up and REALLY talk about your emotions.

“[Name], I shouldn’t have made that joke yesterday in place of sharing my feelings with you. I really like you and [fill with how you feel about her here, it’s something I’m working on,I’m sorry, etc]…”

Maybe she’s moved on already, but I’d say you still have another chance.

ETA: my life partner and I met on tinder. He didn’t even kiss me until 3 dates in which was crazy for me at that time of dating but so refreshing 😅

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