You sound like a hangry entitled brat. Eat a snickers, stand up for yourself, leave the room - not the house, be gracious but have boundaries. No family is perfect. You’ll face bigger challenges than this someday, however.

I would just get some mild charges for this (it's pretty fucked tbh, there should be a more sever punishment imo) and again, I'm genuinely worried that it would draw attention to her and put her in another situation she is not comfortable in. I don't want to burden her with it but at the same time I don't want to make any more decisions that effect her in any way without clear feedback from her ever again, be it compensation through the legal system or anything else. I'm scared shitless that it's gonna be the wrong decision.

Thank you for being more understanding than I could ever ask for. I am so sorry that you had to go through what I put her through and I hope you're doing better. I am trying not to torture myself about it but it really fucked with the way I think of myself and I'm having a difficult time to find the right way to accept what happened, I want to accept it and move forward but I don't want to deal with it as "something that happened, gotta move on" either. Don't worry about your english, you're doing great and it's actually my second language too (or forth language, depending on how you count). And also thank you for understanding why I mentioned that I was drunk and that I am not trying to shove the blame off to the alcohol.

nta because your boyfriends family couldnt understand that you are hungry. your boyfriend needs to stop acting like a baby because you left.

Guess he knows what to get your for Christmas.

Yes. No "I assumed." Ever.

I did not anticipate that ending

Don't take it all grammar police but a vehicle has brakes and you can break something. But the noun is brake and the verb is to break. But you can also be braking as in using your brakes.

Dude why would you think it’s ok to touch her if you never had that connection

>Bf made some sexist comments at my expense

Get out

Fun little story! Every time you vote for a candidate that is funded by pacs and super pacs are making laws for them and not you! So technically, you are killing people because these politicians are keeping things like insulin astronomically high, then tying your health insurance to your job in order for you to maintain a semblance of balance in order to just work. Don't forget where these people get their money from in order to continuously campaign! But sure, keep on acting like you got the answers to everything, mate! You literally suck the air out of a room!

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So they have a bottle of anal lube but they don't do anal.....right...I believe you!

Assuming that the story is 100% true(never the case), I feel like the first time very well could have been a misunderstanding but it does seem sketch because he was drunk. That being said, according to the story, she really wanted to see him, invited him over to stay the night, had beds pushed together, etc. This was a romantic night where neither party communicated what was and wasn't appropriate. Two young people not planning things out well or communicating well is a bit rough to start calling him a sexual predator. The second time after she put explicit boundaries, he's hit assault and the situation got very rapey. Chick is very well in the right mindset to ghost him. That being said, dude needs to not drink and get counseling. He clearly has some serious issues and needs to get to a point where he loves himself before he starts trying to love someone else. I'm very sorry for the girl, but the first part is on her as well for not communicating her boundaries. Both parties are wrong for not communicating. It sounds like both parties have a need for counseling and self-love. Dude needs to completely stop drinking. Learn from it, thank God that it wasn't worse. Leave the girl alone and stop sexually assaulting people. No means no, even 5 minutes and some cuddles later.

If you haven’t eaten in 48 hours, you’d describe a lot of things in a way that makes them seem like huge red flags. I don’t think we can get an accurate read on whether this is toxic or whether this is typical heteronormative BS because the narrator of this story was at their absolute limit of emotional control at the time it happened. That’s not a healthy place to be, whether you’re in a toxic environment or a pretty standard one.

Go outside

I suppose some people are so principled that they walk out on their entire relationship because their boyfriend happens to have been raised in a fairly typical heteronormative household, or because that same boyfriend has some relatives they disagree with politically. Many, many Americans spent yesterday in homes where the women cooked while the men watched TV, and where they got annoyed with their relatives who baited them about their policies. If that was the bar for “so toxic you need to leave” the January divorce rate would be nearing 100%. It’s not great. It’s not okay in the sense that we shouldn’t try to improve it. But it is unfortunately normal and common enough that some of the onus is on the individual to better manage their ability to respond to it.

Damn. So many things wrong with this post Cheap $400??? You were either ripped off or paid for a weekend gf experience through some sleezy site. Addicted to porn but don’t look the part?? How do porn addicts look? O.o Cheating to “become better” at sex. Maybe try some therapy. Seems like you have a lot to work through and could use the help

In my honest opinion it would be best to just give her space and stay distant from her and if at some point she wants to talk then by all means but if she doesn’t then respect her wishes and try to get some help because my god man

Did Frank Reynolds write this

Oh no, whatever will I do with... What's your name? Ah, shit, I really don't feel bad at all about this. Anyways, you have fun being miserable with your family, always worried that you're gonna say the wrong thing or be cancelled. I'll do the same, except, ya know, I won't be miserable or worried. I will be having fun, though, so thanks for your well wishes!

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Always. ALWAYS trust your gut. Or in this case, your wifes gut.

Man I love cats.

If your BF's reaction to you leaving is to think you're a brat, you can do better than him.