Trust me, those friends who have had sex in their parents house before? The parents KNOW.

Personally I hope my kids explore themselves when they reach that age, they'll know what they like and communicate it to their future partner(s) which is all round good for them.

Don't be embarassed because I'm sure your parents did similar things or went through similar experiences as teens. You're doing nothing wrong so flick away!

Ah Kroger and their frozen swordfish dinners. Now I gotta go get one and pick out the farrow (damn you, texture issues).

Yeah, she can with me because she is already comfortable and we know each other. It was difficult at the start because she had mental breakdowns, until she was comfortable enough to do it. It was also erasmus, so easier to do this things

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She can't have sex? But she'll have sex with you?... what?

Yeah yeah, I've been seeing people since we broke up, but it's like empty sex, no fun

Yeah, goddamit, I now know better i hope. But she seemed more mature than before, and nicer

Download tinder jesus

Her personality makes her ugly.

The same happened to me. But the door fell off completely. Now I fixed there a shower curtain (trimmed to be not too wide) with clothes pins. It's been a year, and it works well enough. The whole bathroom needs to be renewed at some point. No money for now.

You read my previous posts? Yeah... But she is still hot

Fuck her she cheated lol

I once broke a glass and a plate right in the hallway while they were asleep and they told me they didn't notice. So I think you're good, at the least for the moaning part

Part of my job is selling hiking and mountaineering shoes, you’d be surprised how much difference there is in size between brands. And then you have differences in width too! Wide, small, small back wide front.. Sizes really differ alot and there is no real uniformity.

This is actually kind of hilarious 🤣

Some do

Well, it definitely broke from the inside first. It worked really well for a long time!

Yeah, that sounds like a great way to make sure you're miserable.

I know it probably doesn't seem like it now, but life is too short to go on a trip with people you don't like, and passive aggressive snipes like "sorry my family isn't perfect" doesn't make your girlfriend sound like somebody that it's worthwhile spending time with either.

I'm not saying you should break up with her; I'm just saying that you should think about your priorities. How and with whom do you want to spend your time?

Hopefully you didn't send her nudes or give any of your personal info or bank details to them... Might not be the last you hear from them!

Grandma doesnt care about torn skin if she's dead though.

It's very possible I'm perceiving it that way. The more I think about it, the more I tend to shift towards that. I'll definitely make that a goal of the trip, and I'll try to talk to her about it in a way that's more towards building (like you said bridging the gap) our relationship rather than tearing it down.

I understand. I definitely do need to bury it and just try my best, I think I'm holding a lot of judgment against them without much real reason. So I'll try and see how it goes.

I do try to support her with her family problems, I just do not want to become this backbone that she always relies on. It may be unfair but I feel like she needs to be able to deal with some of it herself. I didn't include this in the original post but we're both going off to college very soon, meaning I most likely won't be able to be there for her every little thing and why I want her to learn to be able to help herself. That being said, I don't really understand where I'm drawing the line, or where I don't want to put her needs before mine.

It's mostly how they treat each other when we've been out and what I've heard from my girlfriend. I think it's mostly the "I don't care" attitude they seem to have about each other. They just often refuse to do the smallest favors or show any kindness whatsoever for basically any reason. I was raised the exact opposite and it makes me so frustrated to see family act that to one another, but I know I can't say anything about it. It's not my place.

Either way, its good that you at least talked about it. If she knows she may be able to help bridge that gap and make interacting with her fam more tolerable? If you agreed to go maybe make a goal of the trip to better understand the family dynamic? Maybe your perceiving it in a way thats worse then how they see it? Idk just kinda spit ballin here.