I'd blame this on parents, both yours and hers. Yours for not educating you that women are always equally human as men, and don't become less so from having a period. Hers for not educating her that she shouldn't date misogynists like you.

Yeah he could have done this and escaped, but no, "honesty is the best policy" lol

Or lack of it due to prudish christians.

Man up and get your RED WINGS...What's wrong with you?

You sounds like a dude I wouldn’t wanna date or be friends with. She probably wanted you to shower with her so you could have mess free sex.

Learn about periods. You don’t stand in a puddle of red🙄 if you have sec maybe a little will come out but who actually cares.

Don’t make your gf feel like crap because your a uneducated and ignorant

You did nothing wrong, if you don't want to take a shower with her I don't see why you should justify yourself, period or no. And everyone saying that you're an AH or whatever isn't rational

I don't get why everyone is on his ass, he literally said that he was on the verge on passing out like wtf, he didn't say a thing about her period, he just said " Nah ". I don't get why everyone is against him. Yes he said he had THOUGHTS but his GF didn't know anything about that, she literally just overreacted for nothing

oh hell nah not the "pick me" behaviour, no man will praise you for siding with OP homie

Dry, sugary food caramelizes and then carbonizes real fast in the microwave!

I don't think that needs to be educated. I mean, basic communication fixes it. This guy is weird, anyway xD

I don't have a vagina but I have a brain and really thinking that blood will be all over the place while showering is silly 🤣

This post made my day, anyway 😅

No, my money is private school, specifically religious or homeschooling, which are often the same thing.

Public schools in the US have fewer hangups… unless they have a bunch of religious zealots interfering, which is an increasingly troubling matter in many locales.

Should've just pretended to be asleep dude, or just tell her you were tired. Keep the red water comment to yourself lol

Nevermind* thanks swipe

And not be a baby about the part of the body he cares so much about, never-ending girl. Didn't fu he was being himself and called out for it. He could tell her this is what I envisioned and it freaked me out, but you have to say that and not pretend it was "for her to sort it out." Life is gross and it's a big turn off when someone can't step out of their comfort zone for you, just to be with you at a special time in a special place.

You Are the Asshole….wait….wrong sub. You actually fucked up by posting here how much of a blissfully ignorant misogynist you are.

I think she overreacted. He doesn’t have to join her in the shower if he doesn’t want to - period or no period. Personally it’s not my thing, I want peace and space to wash myself! I don’t think think this is truly period shaming, as he’s allowed to decline an invite to join her in the shower if he doesn’t want to, just like she is allowed to decline the same invite if he made it. I kinda feel she is feeling hormonal and making a bigger deal out of this than she needs to be, but my god, don’t say that to her if you have any sense whatsoever!!

For clarity, I’m an older woman who’s had my fair share of periods!

Man! Did you ever cut your finger and took a shower?? Cause if you did, that's about all the blood you'll see. It will be diluted in many many liters of water. You won't see it.

It's not like she's losing two liters of blood every month, dude. BTW, I'm a guy and I shower any time with my girl 😃

If this was an AITA post, you'd be the asshole.

If OP is old enough to go on vacation with his gf, he’s old enough to use google. No excuses.

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Why is he being bashed for not joining her in the shower ? He states he’d been drinking and was falling to sleep

I’m female but I wouldn’t be angry or emotional if I heard Nah Yeah he made a stupid comment about standing in reddish water but so what ! Being on your period doesn’t excuse you for moaning and expecting men to jump to attention just because you are

Thanks alot public education

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I think he was imagining the scene from the Shining where the blood was flooding the elevator area.

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