Since she respects your decision to have self-care and since she also took time to support herself, it would be helpful to ask her about her own thoughts by using most of what you said in the post.

We're internet strangers looking in on just a few details of your relationship. You're asking about what her thoughts and feelings are, not what we think hers are. It can be difficult to face emotionally, but asking her yourself is the option that would help the most right now if looking through a practical lens.

She likely will tell you what her actions already showed - she'll be supportive about you trying to patch any rough spots in the relationship and she'll still be open to supporting your break.

And if she does have any grievances to vent out to you, having this direct way to tell you can help her to feel comfortable.

Another important thing would be to tell her your own feelings about wanting to support her more and feeling off about how others had been mentally well enough to support her while you worked on yourself.

It's understandable to get second-opinions from the internet since it's an anonymous way to vent out. Though, some wording in the post seems like you're convinced you're a monster despite the first sentence denying it. Having a wealth of guilt is a common trait for anxiety, depression, and ADHD.

What's done is done. Don't take the judgment of internet strangers too personal when your relationship is all about you and your lover. If you're already looking for ways to ease her troubles, then you've already taken the first step. Good luck.

Three days later and it still hurts and you still can't sit down comfortably? I think you've given yourself haemorrhoids or a hernia.

😂 no words, thnx for context

Texas would like a word with you. You are not supposed to teach critical thinking because kids should listen to their parents and not think critically. I'm not making this up.

You didnt FU. If anything you gave her skills that stopped her from being killed.

Sounds like something Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia will do

My keyboard stopped working one day so I sent it in and got it back with a note that said "keyboard lock (f7) reactivated"

I just had to press f7.

oh it's way worse than that

NSFW warning, not because of him fucking a coconut, but because of what happened to the coconut

You have been warned

https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/6rr6ay/tifu_by_cumming_into_a_coconut/

oh my god dont tell me someone fucked a coconut..

That's kinky

Give it a few days. Let it air dry next time.

You didn’t fuck up. On the contrary you know he’s a cheat and this may have dragged on for ages. Divorce is inevitable now.

Keeps happening to me too.

Pat yourself on the back instead of blaming yourself. I'm feeling good, please do your best in this condition. They give these kids valuable skills and build confidence.

You made my day with this poem hahahah thank you!

People would just fuck a sponge in a pringles can, my brother in christ

Following in his footsteps 🫡

We wouldn’t have fleshlights without literacy

You both took a break, so why blame yourself for what she thinks of you?

Not really, you'd think I would know better by now 😅

Sounds like you're doing a great job. Now you need to teach safely climbing, staying in, and descending from trees!

This entire post reminded me of the coconut one

First time?

Don't be too hard on yourself mate. You're greiving too.

Literacy was a curse