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T0mDeMwoan t1_j26l69z wrote

Ye fucked up more than that day as I read these comments OP. Get a grip, try to work small positive change into yer life, quit the alcohol n drugs, it’ll destroy yer brain before ye even have a proper one. Go work out, get a healthy routine, find some hobbies to pour yer money into rather than drugs n drink.

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Visual_Mission_1459 OP t1_j26kir9 wrote

thank you so much its just hard when taking my childhood into consideration so i basically feel like my body is my only worth. also its hard to not drink bc i rly love alcohol and drugs and lots of my friends do it like we smoke a shit ton of weed together and drink a lot together but ig i'll try and be safe with everything. thank you again.

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Arco_Sonata t1_j26k9ib wrote

Stop getting wasted for starters. You have years ahead of you and looking at older impressionable people on the internet or TV getting shitfaced and fucking everyone doesn’t mean you need to have that lifestyle, because it’s a terrible life to have and the vomiting, fear of what you don’t remember and possibly unplanned pregnancies are not worth it. And props to your friend for rejecting your signs because it could have ruined your life and his if it went any further. Not drinking as much and realising those you see online have the money to make their problems go away, will make you think twice. Because you won’t get to their level unless your parents are loaded. Just be a 15 year old who has a brain and doesn’t want to push a baby out and be in agony at age 16, your mental health in adulthood will thank you.

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That-Pollution-6126 t1_j26k4mm wrote

If you really are a team then take this advice from an older teen, don't drink underage, and don't try to hook up young, I know some teens have their temptations but the more you focus on yourself and the more you force the usual teen urges away, the more time you'll realize that your going to be and adult so and need to stop this kind of stuff.

This advice might not work for you because this advice work for me but I'm very different from you might be, so look for advice that fits you and don't trust the advice from one person solely

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Global_Monk_5778 t1_j26bwp9 wrote

My husband just got checked out for this. Bright red blood is fresh blood and therefore it’s new and from around the anus - most likely tears. Cancer is from deeper within and therefore the blood is darker, more brown and older as it’s had to travel through you. Or that’s what he was told. He had to give a sample and everything was fine. Of course please please go get checked out and get a sample taken but everything may be ok. Worrying about it will be giving you a bad stomach anyway. You could have a rupture. You could have any number of things going on, but the original doc should have checked you over properly not just given you movicol. Fingers crossed OP.

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bowlofjello t1_j269uia wrote

I don’t really see a FU. You said you went to the Dr and the bleeding went away. No FU there.

And now a year later you’re new having problems you weren’t having last year so there wouldn’t have been a way to stop it from happening.

And now you’ve already scheduled an appointment to get this new problem checked out and sorted. Which isn’t a FU.

Health problems you have no control over starting/happening aren’t a FU and you’re doing what you can to check things out.

No FU here.

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